As a 45 year old skinny woman, should I just give up on ever finding a man who isn't fat?

[Anonymous]

You could look for military guys. Most of them have to stay in good shape. Bars near bases and the pentagon are usually good places to meet them. Or join an outdoorsy meetup group.

I'm 43 and in very good shape and I don't date very often because I just don't meet guys offline and don't have time for online. When I do date, they're typically in pretty good shape. I gravitate toward fellow runners and military dudes.

[Anonymous]

Be careful. Many still-fit single men have other issues. Not all of course, but many.

[Anonymous]

^This. Similar to the women

[Anonymous]

Why are you shaming fat guys?

It's politically incorrect to not be attracted to fat guys. Biggot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Join groups that do athletic activities. Or open your eyes to Asian men, who tend to stay thin.

OP here, yes I have found Asian men more attractive. However, I won't have any babies of my own at my age, and most Asian men marry and stay married.

Nope - not true. My exDH is Asian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You could look for military guys. Most of them have to stay in good shape. Bars near bases and the pentagon are usually good places to meet them. Or join an outdoorsy meetup group.

I'm 43 and in very good shape and I don't date very often because I just don't meet guys offline and don't have time for online. When I do date, they're typically in pretty good shape. I gravitate toward fellow runners and military dudes.

I wouldn't do the bar scene unless you actually drink from time to time.

[Anonymous]

Real men have curves!

[Anonymous]

I walk my dog 4xs a day and work full time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is the guy in the other thread who is tired of his fat wife. Maybe you can hook up with him?

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Join groups that do athletic activities. Or open your eyes to Asian men, who tend to stay thin.

OP here, yes I have found Asian men more attractive. However, I won't have any babies of my own at my age, and most Asian men marry and stay married.

Nope - not true. My exDH is Asian.

That's the trouble with stereotypes. All Xs=Y until one =z!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Real men have curves!

Yes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Real men have curves!

Yes!

I love nothing more than some moobs swinging over my body when we are having sexy time.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I am not obsessed with exercise. I don't like gyms. I mentioned my fitness routine because it is a simple and effective basic calisthenics routine I do every other day, that doesn't take up a lot of my time. I exercise because that allows me the strength and stamina to stay active with recreational activities like kayaking, swimming, and walking my dog.

[Anonymous]

Good-- more dad bods for me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I am not obsessed with exercise. I don't like gyms. I mentioned my fitness routine because it is a simple and effective basic calisthenics routine I do every other day, that doesn't take up a lot of my time. I exercise because that allows me the strength and stamina to stay active with recreational activities like kayaking, swimming, and walking my dog.

Most would have just said "I work out regularly".