past sexual history and financial status

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

Also notice this poster keeps talking about women's sexual history and not men's. Says a LOT about them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man should know if his future wife slept with the entire fraternity in college before he marries her, most men don’t want their daughters raised to be whores.

Hmm..you must not be on this forum very much. Most of the men on here want to be married to someone who enjoys sex. One of the biggest issues that men complain about is that their wives went from low libido to no libido after kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

In your case, I’d say disclosure is a good thing, because as a woman I certainly don’t want to marry a man who sees himself as so dirty and thinks so little of himself that he’s embarrassed women slept with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

Yikes, Uncle Rico! Still living back in the glory days when you played football and had sex more than twice a year? You’ve built up quite the scenario in your head of a woman who hasn’t had a second thought about you. Maybe she’s avoiding you because you’re just weird?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I know teams who lie about such things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

Awkward 😬

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

How do you know what her husband knows?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

You are disgusting, you know that right? And yes, I would want to know if my future husband had participated in behavior like this. Are you willing to list the names of your teammates who "passed around" women? Protect the boys, shame the women, right?

Sounds like the men were pigs and no doubt some rape happened because of what they believed to be the case about some of these girls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

How do you know what her husband knows?

Because it’s an entirely made-up scenario.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man should know if his future wife slept with the entire fraternity in college before he marries her, most men don’t want their daughters raised to be whores.

And vice versa, right? A woman doesn’t want her sons being taught how to be a man by a womanizer.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like there’s a man on here who was in a UVA fraternity and on the football team, and participated in several activities that would likely be considered sexual assault and non-consensual. I’m assuming lots of alcohol was involved (hello, fraternities), and by his description of “passing around”, these boys were probably passing around a woman who was blacked out.

Since he’s so keen on disclosure, he should lead from the front and disclose exactly who he was and who these other boys are, so they can all be held accountable and justice can be served.

Until he does, he should probably STFU about demanding sexual disclosure. Nobody likes or respects a man who leads from the back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

Sounds like both of you had a wild, careless youth. She probably avoids you because you treated her like trash and she's embarrassed that she let you.

Did you tell your wife how you and your buddies passed girls around in college? Or slept with whoever wasn't occupied at the end of a drunken party? Were you a "good guy" or a "sleaze"?

A lot of male athletes treat women like garbage. So do a lot of frat guys. Just read the news.

Look at what happened with the married, middle-aged MSU football coach who got fired for sexually harassing the rape crisis survivor who was hired to give his team speeches about sexual assault.

https://www.lansingstatejournal.com/story/news/local/campus/2025/05/01/mel-tucker-brenda-tracy-lawsuit-michigan-state-university/83387702007/

There's a reason smart women don't seek out athletes to date. Lots of potential for abuse and distasteful treatment. You apparently haven't stopped - bringing up this person from your past as though avoiding you is a poor decision. Seems like a good decision, actually.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like there’s a man on here who was in a UVA fraternity and on the football team, and participated in several activities that would likely be considered sexual assault and non-consensual. I’m assuming lots of alcohol was involved (hello, fraternities), and by his description of “passing around”, these boys were probably passing around a woman who was blacked out.

Since he’s so keen on disclosure, he should lead from the front and disclose exactly who he was and who these other boys are, so they can all be held accountable and justice can be served.

Until he does, he should probably STFU about demanding sexual disclosure. Nobody likes or respects a man who leads from the back.

This 🔥

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy.

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team. I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players. Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood. Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know. She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.

Sounds like both of you had a wild, careless youth. She probably avoids you because you treated her like trash and she's embarrassed that she let you.

Did you tell your wife how you and your buddies passed girls around in college? Or slept with whoever wasn't occupied at the end of a drunken party? Were you a "good guy" or a "sleaze"?

A lot of male athletes treat women like garbage. So do a lot of frat guys. Just read the news.

Look at what happened with the married, middle-aged MSU football coach who got fired for sexually harassing the rape crisis survivor who was hired to give his team speeches about sexual assault.

https://www.lansingstatejournal.com/story/news/local/campus/2025/05/01/mel-tucker-brenda-tracy-lawsuit-michigan-state-university/83387702007/

There's a reason smart women don't seek out athletes to date. Lots of potential for abuse and distasteful treatment. You apparently haven't stopped - bringing up this person from your past as though avoiding you is a poor decision. Seems like a good decision, actually.

Just a hunch, but I bet he doesn’t have a wife.