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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy. [/quote]

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?[/quote]

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?[/quote]

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team.  I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players.  Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood.  Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know.  She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.[/quote]

Sounds like both of you had a wild, careless youth.  She probably avoids you because you treated her like trash and she's embarrassed that she let you.

[b]Did you tell your wife how you and your buddies passed girls around in college?[/b]  Or slept with whoever wasn't occupied at the end of a drunken party?  Were you a "good guy" or a "sleaze"?

A lot of male athletes treat women like garbage.  So do a lot of frat guys.  Just read the news.

Look at what happened with the married, middle-aged MSU football coach who got fired for sexually harassing the rape crisis survivor who was hired to give his team speeches about sexual assault.

https://www.lansingstatejournal.com/story/news/local/campus/2025/05/01/mel-tucker-brenda-tracy-lawsuit-michigan-state-university/83387702007/

There's a reason smart women don't seek out athletes to date.  Lots of potential for abuse and distasteful treatment.  You apparently haven't stopped - bringing up this person from your past as though avoiding you is a poor decision.  Seems like a good decision, actually.  [/quote]

Just a hunch, but I bet he doesn’t have a wife. [/quote]

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