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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Finances yes, sexual history, no.

Look, no matter what, somebody’s feelings will get hurt if you disclose sexual history. Somebody had a threesome, or slept with a gorgeous celebrity, or paid a sex worker, or did something that will make the other person insecure.

It is fully possible to have a wild sexual experience and then go on to have a very happy, monogamous relationship. But there’s zero need to introduce any doubt by bringing up sex that may make the other person uneasy. [/quote]

So it is ok not to disclose to your potential husband that you slept with the entire UVA football team because you don’t want to make him feel insecure?

Seriously?[/quote]

I don’t know anybody who slept with an entire football team. Did you? How was it?[/quote]

I knew about twenty women you got passed around by the UVA football team.  I also participated in those activities because I was one of those players.  Ten years after graduating from UVA, I ran into one of those women in my Vienna neighborhood.  Her husband knew nothing about her past, and still doesn’t know.  She knows who I am, and avoids me as much as she can.[/quote]

Sounds like both of you had a wild, careless youth.  She probably avoids you because you treated her like trash and she's embarrassed that she let you.

Did you tell your wife how you and your buddies passed girls around in college?  Or slept with whoever wasn't occupied at the end of a drunken party?  Were you a "good guy" or a "sleaze"?

A lot of male athletes treat women like garbage.  So do a lot of frat guys.  Just read the news.

Look at what happened with the married, middle-aged MSU football coach who got fired for sexually harassing the rape crisis survivor who was hired to give his team speeches about sexual assault.

https://www.lansingstatejournal.com/story/news/local/campus/2025/05/01/mel-tucker-brenda-tracy-lawsuit-michigan-state-university/83387702007/

There's a reason smart women don't seek out athletes to date.  Lots of potential for abuse and distasteful treatment.  You apparently haven't stopped - bringing up this person from your past as though avoiding you is a poor decision.  Seems like a good decision, actually.  [/quote]

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