Short women do you like or dislike being short ?

[Anonymous]

While it's true that gaining 5 pounds is super noticable (about a dress size) the upside is that the opposite is true too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 5’11 . I would rather be your height than my height .At my height I get mistaken for a man or a transgender woman . Most men are repulsed by women my height , even tall men avoid tall women . The grass is not greener . At least you can wear heels , there’s nothing I can do to become shorter besides reincarnation

Plus women are pressured to look younger . I find that petite women maintain the youthful look for longer . While tall women appear old even if we have baby faces . I looked 25 years old at 16 years purely based off my height

What? I’m tall and never had the issues you describe. Also have many tall friends and have never, ever heard this.

I am 6 foot and have never had this experience either of people thinking I’m a man or a transgender woman. Family of tall women and never an issue for them either.

Are you particularly large boned? Or bad haircut or unflattering clothes? Sorry for you that happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 4'11" and I hate it! I'm 34 and baby-faced so I look a lot younger than I actually am. I work in a male-dominated industry and am sometimes not taken seriously by clients. It's also hard to buy fashionable clothes and if I gain five pounds it looks like I gained 20 pounds! Finally, I'm never referred to as "hot" or "pretty." Instead, I am "cute" like a goddamn toddler.

Same, and it’s hard to get promoted despite checking all the competencies boxes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'2" and I'm mostly ok with it. Things I dislike.

*having to shop only where they sell petite length pants - especially jeans.
*tall people who stand in front of me at concerts
*standing next to very tall (5'10"-6") female colleagues

+1

For me, non-petite shirts/sweaters are worse for me than pants/jeans. Those can be tailored, but it’s much harder to get the proportions right for shirts/sweaters.

[Anonymous]

You will never be satisfied

[Anonymous]

I’m the oldest and the wisest and the wittiest but also the shortest

[Anonymous]

I spent three hours online this weekend, looking for pants and shirts that would fit me. As a PP pointed out, it’s not just about getting the pants hemmed. Tailored shirts are a nightmare, wide-legged pants can look clownish (I’m north of 50 and not a size 0).

[Anonymous]

I am 5’ 4” wish I was taller!

[Anonymous]

I’m 5’8” and i feel self conscious and conspicuous. I wish I was smaller.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'2" and I'm mostly ok with it. Things I dislike.

*having to shop only where they sell petite length pants - especially jeans.
*tall people who stand in front of me at concerts
*standing next to very tall (5'10"-6") female colleagues

+1
I'm 5'3" and I swear every show I go to the tall people sit in front of me. I need to bring a booster seat. Plus, I agree it's difficult to remain thin. I am thin, but it's through constant starvation. Well, I guess I'm not clinically starving as I'm still healthy range. I just completely feel ravenous 24/7.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 4’10 , and I hate it . I wish I was 5’4 . I even thought of limb lengthening surgery


At my height I deal with a ton of infantilization by both men , and women . Despite being in my late 30s I often get mistaken for a child

It’s extremely hard to maintain being thin at my height since my bmr is low . Unfortunately I have high appetite, and eat more than bigger people


Lastly when men say they like short women they mean women in the 5’0-5’4 range . At my height I attract creepy men who seem hebophilic . I also get hit on a lot by very short guys who only want me because I’m the only girl shorter than them in the room

I'm 5'0 and I like my height. 4'10 is very short, so your experience is on the extreme side. Even at 5'0 it's very hard to be thin because every ounce shows and at least for me, I can't manage to be thin. I'm ok with it.

Um, you are just as short as her. If I saw you two next to each other, I would not see a difference.

[Anonymous]

You will probably live longer than tall people, so that’s one advantage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You will probably live longer than tall people, so that’s one advantage.

Because they won’t get a concufrom running into a tree branch?

[Anonymous]

I am 4'11". I don't mind being short usually as people often think I am much younger than I am but it is hard to find clothes that fit. I have to go to the tailor a lot. I wish I was 2-3 inches taller.

[Anonymous]

I’m 5’2”. I have gotten multiple dents in my car (mostly in parking lots) over the years since I just cannot see things over the dashboard that taller people can. This is in several different cars.

It also took until I was about 35 before people stopped telling me at work that I looked too young to be doing my profession. I welcome grey hair now.

And the clothes fitting issue is real.

Otherwise, I don’t mind it at all. It’s easier to make your way through crowds, I have great balance, and economy class on airplanes is less uncomfortable for me than for taller people.