Attractive husband shlubby wife

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH is super fit and hot. Very high earner, great spouse and dad.

I am a SAHM. Not slender. He finds me beautiful and is devoted to me and the kids.

Go figure.

We'll see how long it lasts.

What do you mean by that? Obviously the marriage will last unless one of us dies, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know zero couples like this in real life.

I know one couple like this. She’s very, very wealthy (family money) but overweight and basic. If you saw her in the street you’d think she worked at Walmart. Her husband is very handsome and charming and seems nice. Don’t know them well enough to know what goes on behind closed doors but they’ve been together 25 years or more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have literally never seen an attractive husband married to a "shlubby wife." It doesn't happen. They don't want unattractive women, and don't have to date them. Full stop.

There are a lot of shlubby women out there and some have spouses who are definitely more attractive than them .

I know two couples who very clearly meet this description.

I doubt they met this description at the wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH is super fit and hot. Very high earner, great spouse and dad.

I am a SAHM. Not slender. He finds me beautiful and is devoted to me and the kids.

Go figure.

We'll see how long it lasts.

What do you mean by that? Obviously the marriage will last unless one of us dies, right?

Sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know zero couples like this in real life.

Pierce Brosnan and Keely Shaye Smith

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does this happen? I imagine it’s a wealthy heiress with poor marriage prospects (based on her looks and figure) but some guy sees a nice meal ticket, possible CEO position in FIL’s business.

They were about even when they met and then she’s got a life changing disease. I am sure some people who don’t know me and my husband well are wondering. Ditto for my best friend and her husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know zero couples like this in real life.

Pierce Brosnan and Keely Shaye Smith

Lovely couple. I think DH and I are very much like them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know zero couples like this in real life.

Pierce Brosnan and Keely Shaye Smith

She was hot when they got married and he stayed loyal even when they both got older and she got heavier. I think that’s a good thing!

I also do not know any couples like this in real life, barring things like serious illness later in life. It’s always roughly evenly matched or the wife is better looking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They probably were even and then had kids. He probably slacks at home and she has no time to take care of herself. Once you realize that you'll get the ick you should from looking at him.

+1
He takes all the time he needs for self care while his wife does it all

[Anonymous]

whispers… he is GAY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have literally never seen an attractive husband married to a "shlubby wife." It doesn't happen. They don't want unattractive women, and don't have to date them. Full stop.

Get more friends. This absolutely happens.

[Anonymous]

I don't see any wives that are schlubby, but I do see lots of couples in middle age where the husband looks good and wife looks fine with some weight gain, usually is a mom. I wouldn't call that schlubby though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They probably were even and then had kids. He probably slacks at home and she has no time to take care of herself. Once you realize that you'll get the ick you should from looking at him.

+1
He takes all the time he needs for self care while his wife does it all

This is me. Burning the candle at both ends and work stress and menopause made me get overweight/. DH is naturally very thin . We were equally attractive when we got married but won’t be again unless I lose at least 30 pounds

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have literally never seen an attractive husband married to a "shlubby wife." It doesn't happen. They don't want unattractive women, and don't have to date them. Full stop.

I've seen many couples like this. I've seen a woman who was easily 200 lb with a tall attractive guy usually white. I think white guys are more forgiving in the looks department to women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know zero couples like this in real life.

Pierce Brosnan and Keely Shaye Smith

She was really hot when they married.