Teen 14 old wakes up at 1-2 pm?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


This. I’ll never understand people like some of the prior posters who need to control the household’s wake up times just because.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.


No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


This. I’ll never understand people like some of the prior posters who need to control the household’s wake up times just because.


+1 I love quiet mornings with kids sleeping late. If we have plans to go somewhere, that’s one thing, but otherwise, who cares? My late-sleeping 15 year old woke up every two hours for the first year of her life and never napped for more than 30 minutes—I’m happy she finally learned to love good sleep.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t care if my 15 yo is up until 2am or later and sleeps half of the day if he doesn’t need to be anywhere. He is still sleeping. I don’t need to get him up just for the sake of getting up. Didn’t any of you stay up half the night watching MTV? I did and slept well past noon on vacations.


Same. Mine are 15 and 13. That said, if we need to be somewhere they are of course expected to get up when asked, and they do.


In our house, we don’t ask, we tell.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t care if my 15 yo is up until 2am or later and sleeps half of the day if he doesn’t need to be anywhere. He is still sleeping. I don’t need to get him up just for the sake of getting up. Didn’t any of you stay up half the night watching MTV? I did and slept well past noon on vacations.


Same. Mine are 15 and 13. That said, if we need to be somewhere they are of course expected to get up when asked, and they do.


In our house, we don’t ask, we tell.


DP. Just curious, are you and/or your spouse firstborn children?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I wake up my teens (junior and senior in HS) at 9:30am. That is plenty of sleeping in (IMO).


Did my mom come back from the dead and post this?! I was never allowed to sleep past 9:00 A.M. as a teen either! Even on weekends or breaks, she'd always come into my room and wake me up and it irked me to no end. Additionally, if I was watching TV on the couch, I'd have to be sitting up and could not lie down, because in her words "I had already slept so much."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.


No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy


Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.
Anonymous
I wake my kids up if there is something we are doing as a family or if they have some event. But if there is nothing going on, I let them sleep.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.


No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy


Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.


Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.
Anonymous
I don't care how late my teens sleep as long as it's not because they are staying up on devices super late. We just ask that devices are off by 11. They are usually up by 11 or noon.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.


+1


Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.


No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy


Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.


Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.


Why not?
Anonymous
I let my kids sleep in if they’re on break but for some reason I can’t let them go past 11:30. I will (nicely) say… um, it’s 11 or 11:30 and then they get up before noon.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I wake my kids up if there is something we are doing as a family or if they have some event. But if there is nothing going on, I let them sleep.



That is common sense. So logical it escapes the control freaks who cant stand to see someone living their life their own way.
Anonymous
On breaks, I don’t care about my kids’ sleep schedules or how late they sleep unless we they need to be somewhere earlier in the AM. That said, I ask for reasonable level of quiet after 10PM especially on weeknights- DH and I often need to be up early.
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