Can my mother get rid of my belongings without my permission ?

[Anonymous]

Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

[Anonymous]

You abandoned the stuff and she paid to store it for five years. Can't have been that important to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

How could OP have done that if she wasn't even told it the space was being cleared out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

Ding ding ding!

[Anonymous]

Did you offer to pay for storage?

How long did you expect her to keep paying to store your stuff? For the next 30 years?

[Anonymous]

It’s one thing to leave stuff in the family home when you move out, it’s another to let your mother move your stuff into a storage unit and pay for that storage. You should have got your own unit (that YOU paid for) when she got hers.

[Anonymous]

How much was the stuff worth? You’ll be paying a few hundred dollars an hour for a lawyer. You won’t get much, if anything, for the sentimental value. After all the legal fees you’ll have to pay, I doubt it’s worth pursuing, OP.

Your brother or mother may have sold the coin collection, but they’d be recouping some of the storage costs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

How could OP have done that if she wasn't even told it the space was being cleared out?

OP knew her mom was moving things into storage five years ago and never offered to help move OP’s things or pay for the storage of OP’s things. Keep up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

How could OP have done that if she wasn't even told it the space was being cleared out?

OP knew her mom was moving things into storage five years ago and never offered to help move OP’s things or pay for the storage of OP’s things. Keep up.

If OP's mom didn't want to store her things, why did she do it?

The space, including OP's belongings, is being cleared out now, or has been cleared out recently. No one told OP. That's the point of OP's question. Keep up.

[Anonymous]

Read carefully people. The coins from grandma were never in storage. The brother took them when mom moved.

Say good bye to all of it OP. Sucks but move on.

[Anonymous]

Try to get on Judge Judy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your mother sounds like a nightmare. This is the kind of unrelenting pain a parent like her will cause. You will never just "get over it' when it comes to your stuff.

Get a lawyer and have them send a letter to your mom and your brother.

I'm sorry you are being tortured by your brother and mom. You deserve better.

Oh it’s a nightmare to have someone else pay for storing your crap when you are a grown-ass adult?

Oh it’s torture that someone else is paying to store your crap?

Here’s a thought: be an adult and pay for your own storage.

Better yet, don’t be a hoarder and have stuff you don’t use, or get a real job and buy a nice house that has enough room.

Yikes. You don't sound like you have normal emotions so it's no wonder you can't relate.

Normal people say, "I don't want to pay for your things to be stored with mine" or "If you want your things kept in my storage space, it will you should pay X amount per month."

Then, "Your brother and I are clearing out the storage space. Do you want your things back? If not, what do you want to do with them, because we can't take them anywhere for you."

Etc.

Normal people say, “Hey, thanks for storing my stuff for years and years for free. Can I help pay to move it to storage and help pay for storage for the next five years?”

How could OP have done that if she wasn't even told it the space was being cleared out?

OP knew her mom was moving things into storage five years ago and never offered to help move OP’s things or pay for the storage of OP’s things. Keep up.

If OP's mom didn't want to store her things, why did she do it?

The space, including OP's belongings, is being cleared out now, or has been cleared out recently. No one told OP. That's the point of OP's question. Keep up.

Why should they bother to tell OP when OP abandoned their things? Why doesn’t OP take care of their own things? Whose things -> whose responsibility? OP.