ghosted after first date

[Anonymous]

The cost of doing business. Not everyone, but most people ghost.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority

+1 There's no such thing as ghosting after one date. While you had a nice time, it wasn't what he was looking for. Move the F on.

[Anonymous]

I think you can ghost after 2 dates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority

+1 There's no such thing as ghosting after one date. While you had a nice time, it wasn't what he was looking for. Move the F on.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? Millennials seem to have sex on the first date, so if you didn't, that could be the problem.

Millennial are now in their 30s and no most don't have sex on the first date.

[Anonymous]

Did you meet online or in person?

[Anonymous]

Move on

[Anonymous]

You may still hear from him but I would move on mentally. Definitely go out with other people. If he does come back around you can put him in the rotation and see if how it goes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? Millennials seem to have sex on the first date, so if you didn't, that could be the problem.

Millennial are now in their 30s and no most don't have sex on the first date.

lol. most do

[Anonymous]

Now you know how most men in their 20s feel about dating. Ghosting is norm among 20-something women.

It go to the point that I'd always arrange to meet at a bar where I knew the bartenders and some regulars, so I could have a good time sitting there even if she didn't show up.

[Anonymous]

i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he was after you for over 2 months for a date, he’s into you. Just calm down, and live your life as you normally would if he were not in the picture. I promise you, he will text/call. Keep your mind busy. But if this guy is playing games, you may want to reconsider if you want to continue dating him…

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority

+1 There's no such thing as ghosting after one date. While you had a nice time, it wasn't what he was looking for. Move the F on.

This.

+1 this is not ghosting

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Well, I certainly hope he hasn’t been interred, but if he is it would explain not having heard from him.