ghosted after first date
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Anonymous
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In my years of dating, I have never experienced this, it’s truly a shock.
A guy that has expressed interest for over two months of going out, we finally met up. We went for dinner, drinks and then hit another spot for last call. Then, on our way back the cars, we hit the park. He let me know he was going out of town, the following day. So from there, i just wished him safe travels. …. i haven’t heard from him since i’m on the fence of reach out to him verses, if he was interested he would’ve reached out and it’s been a week. |
Anonymous
| You hit the park? What does that mean? He told you he was going out of town. |
Anonymous
| He's out of town stop being so needy. |
Anonymous
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walked around the park **
Yes, he did. However, he mentioned it was a short trip. I guess, i’m just not used to not hearing from someone days after a date. |
Anonymous
| Would have texted him the same night or the next day thanking him for the fun date, and hoping to see him soon. Why didn’t you text? |
Anonymous
| It's such a common line. They are always about to go out of town or have a big meeting at work as an exit strategy. He is not the one, move on. Even a guy on the road can manage a few texts to stay in touch. |
Anonymous
we did exchange that! the date was last friday, i haven’t heard from him since last saturday is this a norm to not hear from someone in a week? I haven’t been dating much in the past few years, so maybe things have changed |
Anonymous
It's not you it's him. He's just not that interested. |
Anonymous
| If he was after you for over 2 months for a date, he’s into you. Just calm down, and live your life as you normally would if he were not in the picture. I promise you, he will text/call. Keep your mind busy. But if this guy is playing games, you may want to reconsider if you want to continue dating him… |
Anonymous
| How old are you? Millennials seem to have sex on the first date, so if you didn't, that could be the problem. |
Anonymous
| Don't be like the guy I ghosted who texted me 5 days in row about where I was. |
Anonymous
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There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority
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Anonymous
| If he were at all into you, he would have at least texted to check in. Forget about him. Next! |
Anonymous
| Are you heavier than your photos indicate? |
Anonymous
| Move on. He's not for you, you need more attention that that it seems. |