They're all from Long Island and went to HS there. His parents must have relocated to FL at some point after they graduated from HS. Did either attend college anywhere? |
| My richest family member didn't attend college. It's really not relevant here though if they did or did not. |
How do we all have good heads on our shoulders? It must be something to do with parenting. My parents and my inlaws collectively raised 5 children to be fully self sufficient immediately after college and not date/marry losers. That can’t be all luck. |
Sure it can. I know multiple families in which two kids are successful and a third or fourth, as you put it, dates and marries losers. All sorts of birth orders. Personally I feel grateful not to have fallen in love with an abusive asshole. Not everyone is so lucky or has the strength to free themselves. Especially at 22. |
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Very sad situation here all around. But yeah, I agree with this:
Anonymous wrote: Too soon and awkward. But we need to stop kids from thinking they all can quit their jobs, sell what little possessions they own, and become “influencers.” That market is already super saturated. It’s harsh, but YouTube shouldn’t glorify two Publix baggers that drive into the desert and watch as bad things happen. I have several extended family members (cousins) who think they're going to be a YouTube influencer, Instagram celebrity, etc. It's a super f**ked up plan for one's life and is bound to lead to tragedy, even if not as dramatic as this one. Come on parents. We have to do better at keeping these social media apps away from kids when they are at their most vulnerable young pre-teen ages and point them in a real direction so they actually do something with their life. |
Some of it is luck. A lot of it is smart choices and doses of reality from parents. For starters, not graduating college was not an option. Living in the basement for more than a transitional month or two was not an option. |
No one is attacking people who don't attend college or saying people who don't attend college can't be "rich." It's relevant to their backgrounds. Obviously, it's not relevant to his guilt. |
Agree. As much as I loathe Trump, I wish he was successful in getting TokTok banned. |
I'm glad Hull had the kindness to try to reach Gabby about the relationship. Maybe Gabby was thinking about it, but it would have saved her life if she had immediately acted on it. Is this conversation posted somewhere? |
You really think graduating from college determines whether women fall prey to abusers and murderers? |
It should be on Hull's body cam footage, but I haven't seen that posted. I wish the police would have had notice of the 2nd witness report, as that surely would have made a difference in the outcome of that stop. Heck, even if she had been cited or arrested, her parents likely would have had to ntervene. |
DP. Obviously not, but it can make one more likely to be self sufficient. |
Neither riches nor a college education is going to protect you from this sort of thing. You people need to go back to college to pick up critical thinking skills you missed in the first go round. |
Well, financial self-sufficiency can factor into whether someone feels able to leave an abuser, so there's that. |
You think good parenting saves teens/YA from mental illness? LUCK |