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I hate to say that I too have a smart kid (I also have a MR child too, in case someone was wondering how everyone on this board has such smart kids.) He is charming, funny, popular, loving, disobedient, sometimes lazy and gets grades well below his ability. Very frustrating. However, he NEVER has had a temper tantrum, hit me or any family member, or anyone, spit on us, swore at us, climbed on tables, etc. I don't know how anyone stands that behavior, I know I would smack him back and I have never hit either of my children. My MR child has also NEVER engaged in this violent behavior, although he also has issues of his own, of course. I guess God gives us what we can handle because that type of behavior would not be tolerated in our house. I see kids smack their parents in public, and the (usually) Moms SMILE AT THE CHILD AND TRY TO REASON WITH THEM. I figure if Mom is that clueless, she deserves what her hellacious life is going to be like.
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