| Having a blue collar business is not a failure you snob. |
They are not even failures. This woman probably has a great life with a small business she runs that lets her have the flexibility to enjoy life and spend time with her family while being her own boss. Sounds pretty good! |
It’s not only crazy, it’s cruel to call someone who worked hard a robot full of ambition without heart and run of the mill. Who are you to judge whether someone has heart? Plenty of smart people change course in their 20s, that doesn’t mean they don’t have heart or they’re run of the mill. |
| I just read in my husband’s Princeton alumni magazine that 217 freshman deferred this year. Meaning 217 fewer spots for seniors next fall. 🙁 |
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Has Princeton confirmed that? Yale has about 345 kids deferring to start but they have publicly committed to accepting the same number of students they would have in a normal year making the class of 2025 quite a bit bigger. (FWIW an even larger number of sophomores appear to be gapping and joining the class of 24.) |
We’re they filled by 2020 waitlists? |
Oh yes, at her age, she’s still paying for her college and medical school loans. |
Princeton/Holton rowing poster has posted identifiable info before. |
You’re a sick stalker who is still jealous of this girl. |
I agree with you. Longtime HYP interviewer here. The students that I have had accepted over the years have not been the types that the hand wavers here claim you must be to get accepted — URM, 1st gen, world class athlete or performer, etc. They’re just really solid kids that are great to have in the student community. |
Unless they want to be a professor at GWU? |
First, your daughter has great stats. No school is going to reject her because of her stats. Second, your daughter is full-pay. In the age of COVID-19, being full-pay is probably admissions officers' favorite extracurricular activity, even at the HYP schools. For the HYP schools, one of the glories of holistic admissions is that they can cheat and use expensive activities to identify and admit full-pay kids. The fact that your daughter went to a private school sends the message, "Probably has money." Third, chances are the counselors at your daughter's school are great at getting kids into HYP. Finally, your daughter is applying as a humanities or social sciences major in an age when everyone else is rushing into STEM majors. I'm looking at the Niche version of the admissions scattergrams now. At the HYP schools, on the scattergrams, the closest major to women's studies is philosophy. It looks as if would-be biology and physics majors have about a zero chance of getting in with your daughter's scores, but as if would-be philosophy, history and English majors might have at least a 25 percent chance to 30 percent of getting in, based solely on stats. That could be because would-be humanities majors are more interesting than would-be STEM majors, but it could be that even HYP are struggling to persuade kids to major in the humanities. Backup ideas: Amherst, for Princeton: I think the scattergrams imply that she'd have about a 50 percent chance of getting in as a humanities major. Washington University, for Yale (similar architecture; flexible curriculum; laid back atmosphere): Maybe she'd have close to 100 percent chance of getting in as a history major. Wellesley, for Harvard (near Boston; prestigious; shuttle to MIT): Nearly 100 percent chance of getting in as a history, English or interdisciplinary studies major. Maybe a school like Amherst would be a good, slightly less selective alternative to Princeton. I think the scattergram shows she'd have a greater than 50 percent chance of getting into Amherst. |
I really appreciate your post and all of the others, too. Even those with a little snark! I shared several with her and think we had a positive conversation - leading her to think more about fit and what she's truly helping to get out of her college experience. Again, she's definitely talking with her counselor and using other resources, but reading the various outcomes and stories posted also has value. With the increased focus on STEM for girls, I have wondered if her interest in a non-STEM major might be a plus. Thanks again for all of the input and best of luck to those who are going through this with your own children! |
Niche is a joke |