Moms - would you hire a young beautiful nanny??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Its a big no. Its also about someone looking after your kids and seeming maternal with them. If they are already physically attractive, surely this is going to make them more so?

Didn't Robin Williams marry the nanny? His 2nd of 3 wives?

Is that true?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course - I hired two nannies who were beautiful, but smart too. One is in law school at Yale now. My DD was blessed to have her. You should do what's best for your kids!

No, do what's best for your DH.

[Anonymous]

I am a very attractive 24 year old live in nanny. I adore the children I care for and have great respect for my landlords. I adore my landlady and she is the kindest most sweetest woman around. She and her husband are still very in love and demonstrate to me what a happy functioning marriage looks like. Her husband is an attractive man in his early 40s and I have never ever even thought of him in that way. It's so gross! In fact I am hyper vigilant about keeping peace in the house and go out of my way not to look sexy or something around him. I usually pull my hair back and have no make up on and wear unflattering clothes while on my shift. I know how people perceive young attractive nannies and I almost overcompensate by looking unattractive haha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a very attractive 24 year old live in nanny. I adore the children I care for and have great respect for my landlords. I adore my landlady and she is the kindest most sweetest woman around. She and her husband are still very in love and demonstrate to me what a happy functioning marriage looks like. Her husband is an attractive man in his early 40s and I have never ever even thought of him in that way. It's so gross! In fact I am hyper vigilant about keeping peace in the house and go out of my way not to look sexy or something around him. I usually pull my hair back and have no make up on and wear unflattering clothes while on my shift. I know how people perceive young attractive nannies and I almost overcompensate by looking unattractive haha.

This post is definitely written by OP's DH, hoping she'll go for the hot nanny and not worry about it...

[Anonymous]

Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it!!!!! I learned the hard way- not my husband- but my neighbors husband!!!! It was trouble still. My requirements- slightly overweight, married, homely and preferably over 50.

[Anonymous]

Is the wife telling the husband no when he wants sex? Are the two of them sniping at each other about stuff every day? Bring another beautiful young woman into the house. That'll work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

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But I don't know that she needs to be married, as that'd tend to make her less available if you need her OT.

[Anonymous]

OT: So out of the sack of insecure walruses barking on this thread, how many also refused to have any bridesmaids in their wedding who were thinner or otherwise more attractive than them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OT: So out of the sack of insecure walruses barking on this thread, how many also refused to have any bridesmaids in their wedding who were thinner or otherwise more attractive than them?

Who cares? You aren't leaving your husband at home with them while you dash off to the office every day, are you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.

yummmmm sexy nanny with oreos on top love em

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OT: So out of the sack of insecure walruses barking on this thread, how many also refused to have any bridesmaids in their wedding who were thinner or otherwise more attractive than them?

I'm guessing...all of them.

Thanks for the laughs, everyone! Christ.

[Anonymous]

There was a hot post on the explicit forum once about a woman who ended up having an affair with the hot nanny, so just FYI, there's always the faint possibility it won't be DH who strays....

[Anonymous]

Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.

Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.