Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing: cheating men cheat. The men who did marry or have dalliances with nannies didn't necessarily do so because they were more attractive than the DWs (Arnold, anyone?) it's probably that it was easier to sustain a cheating relationship discreetly by going the nanny route.
Whether you hire a Kate Upton lookalike or a busted cow to care for your children will not matter a whit if your husband is committed to you and your marriage. Period.
That's what my friend said; her dh is now married to the au pair.
The au pair did not make him cheat. He was already inclined to do so.
Not the pp but I know that those kind of women, opportunists or au pairs, will do anything to stay in the country and will roam rich legal men like bees on honey
Anonymous wrote:I don't know, especially if your DH is in shape.
I mean when I was in my teens and 20s I went through a period of going out with significantly older men with money to spend on me.
I did too. Call them my "hobby" boyfriends bc they had expertise in areas I was interested in... Older, rich and glamorous is very appealing,
your avg guy with a wife and mortgage not so much. If you are young and hot, you have choices.
Why do I feel like a guy posted this?
Don't know. I'm female and middle aged now.
Maybe back in the 80s ot 90s guys are very cheap now