I'm the OP of the "famous" my boyfriend is missing post- AMA!

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you mention that you have Sicilian ancestry; that you are from a wealthy family and from New England. I'm thinking that your father and grandfather were in the mob? Am I correct or am I stereotyping?

OP here: You're not correct at all, sorry!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm going to bed. Will you continue answering questions tomorrow?

OP here: I will continue to answer the questions that are legit questions and not just rude ones I do have two client meetings tomorrow though so unfortunately won't be able to sit on DCUM all day like some PP's seem to think I do!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess you're not part of the Patriarca family if you dated a cop.

OP here: hahaha no! I didn't even know who they were until I just googled them.

[Anonymous]

OP, I mean this nicely although it may not come across that way on the internet. I think you have seriously low self esteem when it comes to men. I am the pot calling the kettle black here. I was very much the same way through my mid-30s. I highly recommend taking some serious time off from dating and just exploring why you've maintained relationships that aren't healthy. You can do so much better, but it does take a particular skill set when dating to find a good person. In any event, I wish you good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I mean this nicely although it may not come across that way on the internet. I think you have seriously low self esteem when it comes to men. I am the pot calling the kettle black here. I was very much the same way through my mid-30s. I highly recommend taking some serious time off from dating and just exploring why you've maintained relationships that aren't healthy. You can do so much better, but it does take a particular skill set when dating to find a good person. In any event, I wish you good luck.

OP here: I appreciate your comment and I dont think it came off mean at all. I believe that I posted in my other forum that I think my exes occasional emotional abuse for years is a reason I tend to still fall for the wrong guys and I definitely have every plan on taking some time off from dating and working on some other things in my life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I mean this nicely although it may not come across that way on the internet. I think you have seriously low self esteem when it comes to men. I am the pot calling the kettle black here. I was very much the same way through my mid-30s. I highly recommend taking some serious time off from dating and just exploring why you've maintained relationships that aren't healthy. You can do so much better, but it does take a particular skill set when dating to find a good person. In any event, I wish you good luck.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Why were you constantly posting online about the issue with Bobcat man rather than turning to your real life friends and family for help and support?

Op here; if you had read the full post, you would have known that I was in fact talking to friends about it.

I love that you're now indignant with people for not reading a zillion-page thread about nothing. HILAR.

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Anonymous wrote:Where is your family from originally. I have always pictured you with a slight eastern European accent. The wealthy/vineyard things throws a whole new angle on things.

Are you an only child?

OP here: My family is from Rhode Island although my grandparents are from Sicily if that matters at all. I'm not an only child, I have two younger siblings.

Funny, I was going to ask if the family wealth was from the "construction" business. I am assuming yes. That explains a lot!

Op here: nope. My grandfather started a successful business and my dad took it over when he retired. Nothing to do with construction at all.

Sanitation?

[Anonymous]

Are you attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can someone please link the original thread??? I HAVE to read it. I can't wait.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/461803.page (128 pages)

[Anonymous]

Are those of you telling OP to go away the same people who friended her BF on FB?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

Where in PA was he?

[Anonymous]

These AMA threads are attention-seeking to begin with, but OP has already been the focus of several threads and now this? She really does love "The ME Show," huh!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I wish you well. I hope one day you will see your behavior is not normal and will seek help. As for now, I don't want to engage someone with a mental health illness and feed into it. GL [/quote
Wow. This is the best passive aggressive crap I've seen on DCUM. Bravo Pp.Bravo.
Op ignore her. Your working this incident out in a way that works for you. And some of us will learn from you too.

[Anonymous]

What's your favorite color?
At what age did you stop believing in Santa?
Do you like duck season or rabbit season?