I'm the OP of the "famous" my boyfriend is missing post- AMA!

[Anonymous]

Ok. Now I think OP is a troll. Maybe she started the AMA thread about being a fake poster.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, the Rhode Island/Vineyard thing doesn't fly for me at all, as someone originally from that area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the Rhode Island/Vineyard thing doesn't fly for me at all, as someone originally from that area.

OP here: Why would that be? I know plenty of people from here that vacation in the Vineyard. My family has had a house in Edgartown since I was in 9th grade and before that, we always just rented a house on the isand. What you are saying makes no sense at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok. Now I think OP is a troll. Maybe she started the AMA thread about being a fake poster.

OP here: Pretty sure Jeff said that the person was posting from MD and he already confirmed in my original post that I was posting from Rhode Island so....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you start this thread as a way to continue to obsess about him and talk about him ad nauseum?

OP here: Nope, not at all. Like I said in my first comment, I had some PP's from the other threads email me asking for an update or to see if I was ok. I also notice that people continue to comment on the other post so I figured I could do a AMA and answer some questions people may have now that it's been over a week and he's back, etc.

You had 5 emails--wouldn't have been quicker to just respond to the five who actually asked?

[Anonymous]

OP, you sound amazingly inarticulate for someone with your purported education, connections and wealth.

[Anonymous]

Why did you seek out a serious relationship with someone so far away? I met DH online and had a pretty strict distance I wasn't going over. I don't get people who seek out online long distance relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound amazingly inarticulate for someone with your purported education, connections and wealth.

Is OP George W. Bush?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like you're overexposed now. Kind of like a Kardashian. Maybe take your 15 minutes of DCUM fame and walk elegantly into the sunset? I feel like another thread is just going to ruin what was.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

I agree. Sounds an awful lot like there's an OW or criminal activity. You dodged a bullet.

Why do you think you picked him in the first place?

OP here: Sadly, a couple of months back I had my cop friend run a background check on him and absolutely nothing came back but obviously that doesn't mean he hasn't done anything. As far as the "OW" thing- I'm still up in the air about that. I think back to all of our texts and phone calls and video chats and I just don't see how he could have gotten away with it, especially with us video chatting late at night and I could see he was in his house, etc. but I guess you never know.

As far as why did I pick him to begin with- that's not too complicated. I had been in a 6 year relationship from the time I was 17-23. The last 2 years, he was very emotionally abusive and I put up with a lot in that relationship. I dated a couple of guys the last 2 years but nothing super serious. Decided to go online and try it that way and met him and he was EVERYTHING that my ex wasn't. He treated me amazing, complimented me, texted me every morning saying "good morning beautiful", was always showing that he cared, etc. So it was a complete 180 from what I was used to and I fell for him hard. Obviously some red flags came along but I think I pushed those aside because ultimately, he was still treating me really good.

TMI!

OP, please find some real life friends. This is too much exposure on the internet or you're making this all up. Either way, you're a very lonely person.

[Anonymous]

Heather Mills is a famous narcissistic fantasist who makes shit up and then believes it and gets angry when a) people call her on it and b) she accidentally contradicts herself.

Its a mental health issue.

[Anonymous]

1. Do you get a high from posting personal stuff online and getting responses?

2. Shouldn't someone your age be out having fun, not sitting at your computer?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did you seek out a serious relationship with someone so far away? I met DH online and had a pretty strict distance I wasn't going over. I don't get people who seek out online long distance relationships.

OP here: I did not seek out someone who was 4 hours away. He was the one who contacted me first on the website and I responded. It wasn't until we started texting that I realized how far away he actually was but at that point, we were just texting and I didn't think it was really going to go anywhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound amazingly inarticulate for someone with your purported education, connections and wealth.

Op here: what connections are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Do you get a high from posting personal stuff online and getting responses?

2. Shouldn't someone your age be out having fun, not sitting at your computer?

Op here: 1) no 2) it's 8:45pm on a Wednesday night. I'm not sure what I should be doing? Going out clubbing or doing shots at the bar? No.
I've never been into going out during the work week and getting wasted.