I'm the OP of the "famous" my boyfriend is missing post- AMA!

[Anonymous]

Well hey everyone! So I just happened to check my fake email I had made to respond to people on my last post and noticed that I had 5 emails from some of you asking for an update/to see how I was doing so I figured I'd do an AMA post to answer some questions some of you I'm sure have now that it's been over a week! I will NOT respond to stupid troll questions or anything rude, so just putting that out there! So here we go.....

[Anonymous]

Have you heard any more from the boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you heard any more from the boyfriend?

OP here- EX boyfriend now and yes, I have heard from him. He calls/texts me daily.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you heard any more from the boyfriend?

OP here- EX boyfriend now and yes, I have heard from him. He calls/texts me daily.

Do you respond?

[Anonymous]

He calls/texts you saying what?

[Anonymous]

I didn't read the end of your thread -- what did he ultimately say he was doing that weekend? What did he say when you contradicted him? How did you leave it with him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He calls/texts you saying what?

OP here: Well in the first couple of days after he got back from Pennsylvania (not Maine!), it was a lot of "I'm so sorry", "I didn't mean to hurt you", etc. I had one phone call with him on the day he got back and after that, I ignored his calls for a few days (and there were A LOT of them) and would just reply to occasional texts. Now, he texts me daily trying to act like things are the way they were before and trying to make things work but I've made it clear that it won't happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I didn't read the end of your thread -- what did he ultimately say he was doing that weekend? What did he say when you contradicted him? How did you leave it with him?

OP here: He admitted to going to PA for a coonhound hunt competition/to check out a job in PA. He had NO good reasoning for lying to me besides saying "he didn't want everyone knowing what he was doing" which clearly was true since none of his friends/family knew where he was which is why one of his friends ended up filing a missing persons report. I was VERY upset the day he got back and called me and I spent a good 2+ hours on the phone with him crying and yelling and swearing and all of that and just telling him how screwed up it was that he lied to me about everything that he lied about.

[Anonymous]

I feel like you're overexposed now. Kind of like a Kardashian. Maybe take your 15 minutes of DCUM fame and walk elegantly into the sunset? I feel like another thread is just going to ruin what was.

[Anonymous]

Do you believe his reason?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

I agree. Sounds an awful lot like there's an OW or criminal activity. You dodged a bullet.

Why do you think you picked him in the first place?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

I agree. Sounds an awful lot like there's an OW or criminal activity. You dodged a bullet.

Why do you think you picked him in the first place?

OP here: Sadly, a couple of months back I had my cop friend run a background check on him and absolutely nothing came back but obviously that doesn't mean he hasn't done anything. As far as the "OW" thing- I'm still up in the air about that. I think back to all of our texts and phone calls and video chats and I just don't see how he could have gotten away with it, especially with us video chatting late at night and I could see he was in his house, etc. but I guess you never know.

As far as why did I pick him to begin with- that's not too complicated. I had been in a 6 year relationship from the time I was 17-23. The last 2 years, he was very emotionally abusive and I put up with a lot in that relationship. I dated a couple of guys the last 2 years but nothing super serious. Decided to go online and try it that way and met him and he was EVERYTHING that my ex wasn't. He treated me amazing, complimented me, texted me every morning saying "good morning beautiful", was always showing that he cared, etc. So it was a complete 180 from what I was used to and I fell for him hard. Obviously some red flags came along but I think I pushed those aside because ultimately, he was still treating me really good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe his reason?

OP here: Do I believe he actually was in PA? Yes. Do I believe his reason of "not wanting anyone to know"? No, not at all. I wasn't the only one he lied to, he didn't tell anyone else where he was going (besides his grandparents I guess- but only told them he was going to PA for a "job"). But no, I don't believe his reason at all.

I agree. Sounds an awful lot like there's an OW or criminal activity. You dodged a bullet.

Why do you think you picked him in the first place?

OP here: Sadly, a couple of months back I had my cop friend run a background check on him and absolutely nothing came back but obviously that doesn't mean he hasn't done anything. As far as the "OW" thing- I'm still up in the air about that. I think back to all of our texts and phone calls and video chats and I just don't see how he could have gotten away with it, especially with us video chatting late at night and I could see he was in his house, etc. but I guess you never know.

As far as why did I pick him to begin with- that's not too complicated. I had been in a 6 year relationship from the time I was 17-23. The last 2 years, he was very emotionally abusive and I put up with a lot in that relationship. I dated a couple of guys the last 2 years but nothing super serious. Decided to go online and try it that way and met him and he was EVERYTHING that my ex wasn't. He treated me amazing, complimented me, texted me every morning saying "good morning beautiful", was always showing that he cared, etc. So it was a complete 180 from what I was used to and I fell for him hard. Obviously some red flags came along but I think I pushed those aside because ultimately, he was still treating me really good.

OP, I want to congratulate you. You may have pulled one of the greatest DCUM hoax threads ever. You had me right up until this post.

[Anonymous]

OP: is your ex-boyfriend a country boy (redneck)? Are you one too? Not trying to be hateful, just curious because if you are not, how did you meet him?