At what age did you lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.

Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.

He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.

It's not an old wives tale. Maybe it depends on how much hymen you have, but the first time for me, which was totally consensual, was insanely painful and there was a lot of blood too.

+1 I was 30. It hurt. There was a small amount of blood. It hurt every time for a few months. I think it depends on the women's body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.

Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.

He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.

It's not an old wives tale. Maybe it depends on how much hymen you have, but the first time for me, which was totally consensual, was insanely painful and there was a lot of blood too.

+1 I was 30. It hurt. There was a small amount of blood. It hurt every time for a few months. I think it depends on the women's body.

I was 17 when I lost it. Absolutely no blood or pain. Pure bliss.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo many teenage girls hooking up with older guys. Shows you that girls at that age have a lot more opportunity than boys of the same age.

Yeah opportunity to be taken advantage of by predators

If a 19 year old girl was preying on me when I was a 16 year old boy, that would have been just horrible. That's like the female version of first world problems.

[Anonymous]

18.

And I remember being SO relieved.

At the time, I thought anyone who was a virgin after 18 was a loser.

Of course now as a mature adult, I totally see how flawed that logic was.

I think it is much better to wait than to just give it away because you feel like you are on some stupid deadline.

"If I only knew then, what I know now...."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.


Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.

He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.


It's not an old wives tale. Maybe it depends on how much hymen you have, but the first time for me, which was totally consensual, was insanely painful and there was a lot of blood too.


+1 I was 30. It hurt. There was a small amount of blood. It hurt every time for a few months. I think it depends on the women's body.


I was 17 when I lost it. Absolutely no blood or pain. Pure bliss.

There is a wide range of sizes and shapes of male and female parts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I was 16 and I lost it to my older brothers friend. After helping my brother move, his friend ( J) went to pick up some stuff my brother needed. On the way home he asked me I ever had sex. I told him no because my boyfriend just broke up with me for a slut. He started talking sexual and next thing you know we are stopped and he is eating me out. I proceeded to give him a blowjob but I wasn't good at it back then lol. We ended up having sex in the back of his van. He was 27. I regret it big time and it was so painful.


Why was it so painful ? I thought that was all just an old wives tales to keep daughters virgins.

He was a terrible friend to your brother. If my friend did that to my sister, I'd beat his head in with a shovel. Totally not cool for a 27 male to take advantage of a child.


It's not an old wives tale. Maybe it depends on how much hymen you have, but the first time for me, which was totally consensual, was insanely painful and there was a lot of blood too.


+1 I was 30. It hurt. There was a small amount of blood. It hurt every time for a few months. I think it depends on the women's body.


I was 17 when I lost it. Absolutely no blood or pain. Pure bliss.

There is a wide range of sizes and shapes of male and female parts.

It hurt for me, too. In fact, it still does, if it's been a while. The first time post-baby was excruciating.

Anyway, for me, I was 28 and with my fiance of the same age, who was also a virgin. I was ready at 18 but my boyfriend at the time was not. And then I didn't have another serious relationship (and I was only willing to get physical in a serious relationship) until I met my now-DH.

[Anonymous]

19 and it was not a big deal at all. At that age, I just wanted to get it overwith and see what the fuss was about

[Anonymous]

17 with my 17 yr old virgin boyfriend. Was not earth shattering but I was happy to have it over with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 with my 17 yr old virgin boyfriend. Was not earth shattering but I was happy to have it over with.

You make it sound like getting a shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sooo many teenage girls hooking up with older guys. Shows you that girls at that age have a lot more opportunity than boys of the same age.

Yeah opportunity to be taken advantage of by predators

If a 19 year old girl was preying on me when I was a 16 year old boy, that would have been just horrible. That's like the female version of first world problems.

....you probably don't think men can be victims of sexual assault either. ugh.

[Anonymous]

18 in a car - that was a great day.

[Anonymous]

21 male. Biggest regret was not having more sex earlier. Wasn't for lack of effort

[Anonymous]

17 It was great but we built up to it and were in a LTR

[Anonymous]

19 female one night stand not sure why I did it it hurt like hell. Did not have sex for another 3 years after that. Had sex at 22 with my now dh.

[Anonymous]

18, college freshman. With a very experienced, confident college woman. She took care of everything. Only regret is that I wish I had been sober.