At what age did you lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:26. Am I the only person who wanted to wait until married?

What if you never got married?

Sex feels so much better with someone who you care about. Don't listen to this person.

And I would say don't listen to THIS person. Sex can be really fun in all different sorts of situations. Some people think of it as something just between them and their life mate. Others, like me, who married late, think that this leaves out the opportunity to experience many of life's pleasures.

Decide what works for you.

[Anonymous]

At 24 with my now Dh (we were engaged at the time). The strange this is I don't remember losing it. I think I must have been so nervous I blacked it out.

[Anonymous]

18

[Anonymous]

23. Brief but sweet relationship. I was tired of waiting. Wasn't in love but he was a kind decent man. That experience helped cushion the blow when I was date raped a year later. Third was DH and sex is good and safe..

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:33. With my first serious relationship.

I had wanted to with two prior guys (one at 18, one at 25) but they both balked when they found out I was a virgin.

Frankly, I really wish it had happened w/ the guy when I was 18. By the time I got to my thirties I felt like a total loser and really embarassed to admit that I was a virgin. Which is stupid of course, but the truth.

Wow, I'm also the same age (and female) and am worried about exactly this happening. How on earth do you bring it up with someone? I'm not religious, not a prude, and not secretly a lesbian. Sex just hasn't happened for me for a variety of reasons, and as the years go by, it's harder and harder to do something about it.

I'm a PP who lost it at 30. Why are the guys freaked out about the fact that you are a virgin? My now DH, then BF, had no problems with it and felt really happy by the fact that I had given it him.

I wouldn't sleep with a 30 year old virgin or date one or marry one. It seems to indicate a very low libido or asexuality. I like sex. I don't want to be with someone who has so little interest in sex that they waited until mid-20s to early 30s to have sex.

Yawn.

[PrettyinPink]

16 female

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

17 female. He was 23. It was awful and I got a UTI. I didn't know it was a UTI at the time.

Ended up in the hospital for pain and I was so scared that after first lying to the nurse, then I told her that I had had sex that weekend. My dad was a doctor at that hospital and read my chart. Shit hit the roof. I ended up with an unnecessary appendectomy (I still believe it as done to save face in the small town) done by my dad's surgeon friend. Oh and the sheet that stated I had sex in my chart had been ripped out by my dad.

Small town, tight knit minority, conservative community. I was the black sheep for a long long time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 female. He was 23. It was awful and I got a UTI. I didn't know it was a UTI at the time.

Ended up in the hospital for pain and I was so scared that after first lying to the nurse, then I told her that I had had sex that weekend. My dad was a doctor at that hospital and read my chart. Shit hit the roof. I ended up with an unnecessary appendectomy (I still believe it as done to save face in the small town) done by my dad's surgeon friend. Oh and the sheet that stated I had sex in my chart had been ripped out by my dad.

Small town, tight knit minority, conservative community. I was the black sheep for a long long time.

23 year old should have caught some shit for preying on a girl, but otherwise, that story makes me sad. Unnecessary surgery. Angry dad doing things that should jeopardize his medical license.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:26. Am I the only person who wanted to wait until married?

What if you never got married?

Sex feels so much better with someone who you care about. Don't listen to this person.

I've cared about all my partners. Caring doesn't require marriage.

[Anonymous]

Sex feels so much better if you have it. So, marriage can be a double edged sword since you're putting all your eggs in one basket. (I prefer my metaphors mixed.)

[Anonymous]

19-female. It was great with a guy I was totally in love with. Long time ago now. Happy this thread made me think of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:19-female. It was great with a guy I was totally in love with. Long time ago now. Happy this thread made me think of it.

Why did you break up? Still in touch?

[Anonymous]

16 and he was 25. I hung out with two times prior and then he pressure me by saying " adults have sex on the third date". It was painful and the whole time he was only about his pleasure. " your P is so tight" " Damn your a hot ass" and gross dirty talk. I felt so guilty afterward, I didn't see him again and didnt have sex again until I was 19. I'm 26 and sex is great with my current boyfriend.