Whose Responsibility?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

OP, are you okay?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There’s really no need to assign blame in this situation. Mistakes happen and this one is really not a big deal.

It's a huge deal and caused a ton of stress for my DD as she also got the email that her admission was on hold. It's the middle of July. Admissions are closed. Had they simply retracted her offer she would up a creek without a paddle. She had already done her housing and established contact with her roommate. This isn't a whoopsie daisy.

Well. It is over now, so move on! The reason they “hold” and do not retract/rescind is because this happens fairly often. You may never know if your D did the wrong dropdown or not. Move on. This will not be the last annoying mistake in her life. She needs to get better at double and triple checking everything and keeping on top of everything just in case someone messes up. That’s how life is.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are people really trying to convince others that high schools never send the wrong transcripts? They are infallible? That is the oddest thing about this thread. Are all these people admins in the guidance office?

Nope. Just that it doesn’t matter who was at fault in this case. Because the problem was solved. Without harm. So it’s time to stop the blame conversation and let it go.

This. Move. On.

[Anonymous]

OP, the situation is over. All the stress is now coming from inside you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

Your kid is a bytachee, anorexic, shit stirrer like her mother and can’t even find her school from a drop down menu. Not sure you have much room to talk here lady.

Found the fat girl's mom!

Are you all adults? Do you lack purpose?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

Your kid is a bytachee, anorexic, shit stirrer like her mother and can’t even find her school from a drop down menu. Not sure you have much room to talk here lady.

Found the fat girl's mom!

Are you all adults? Do you lack purpose?

Of course they aren't adults. Teenagers come into this forum to stir the pot all the time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The HS is lying.

The way the process works is UNC Chapel Hill requests the final transcript from the HS and they comply. Guidance counselors sent the transcript to the wrong state school campus all the time.

This is easily proven by the fact that Chapel Hill has the intial transcript. There would be no explanation for the change.

Your DD didn't 'mis select' anything.

+1 I can't believe it took 3 pages to get here. If UNC has the first transcript, they come back and ask for the last transcript. OP's DD isn't even involved at this point. It's all between the HS and the college.

The only explanation is the counselor is lying to cover his ass.

Hmm. My ds had to use Parchment to send his final transcript. His college did not ask for it from the school.

+1 My DS had to tell the high school where to send the transcript too. It's not the college job to go searching for tens of thousands of students' transcripts. That's silly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just let it go op. FWIW I believe the school. It’s not like they would need to make up a story vs just saying oops our mistake we will fix it- they fix it either way. Your daughter is filling out literally hundreds of forms right now and it’s a tedious and redundant process. It’s highly likely that she mis clicked one box. You should probably have her bring the counseling office some chocolates as a thank you for jumping in off schedule and fixing her mistake. Teach your kid some graciousness and humility.

Uhhhh, no she isn't.

Tell me you don't know anything about the status of incoming freshman right now without telling you you don't know anything about incoming freshman.

Huh? My kid is filling out all sorts of forms.

+1 If your kid isn't, she is dropping the ball again.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

FYI: my kid turned down UNC Chapel Hill.

Cafeteria wasn't big enough, I presume?

Some of you are seriously effed up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here.

Well, the majority of you are not only rude af, but you are wrong. The college AO called us to say everything was squared away and nothing more was needed " after the HS corrected their error"

They admitted to them that they sent it to the wrong school.

This did not happen bc the college did not speak to the HS office nor did the HS send anything other than the end of year transcript.

Now that one is heading off, you should think about some counseling.

You are 100% wrong.

Liars keep on lying.

You have serious issues. Someday maybe you will read this thread again and see it. I hope you can learn from it. You think people are being mean by pointing it out and that is another symptom of the problem.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

Your kid is a bytachee, anorexic, shit stirrer like her mother and can’t even find her school from a drop down menu. Not sure you have much room to talk here lady.

Found the fat girl's mom!

Are you all adults? Do you lack purpose?

Of course they aren't adults. Teenagers come into this forum to stir the pot all the time.

I think OP is not the parent, but the daughter. I can't image an adult reacting to this simple situation this way.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

You lost me on “fat, ugly, and going to CC…”. You lost all credibility with me. There is nuance to the conversation the school had with the college, and the school doesn’t have time to participate in the blame game when all the college wants is the transcript. Your DD put in the wrong school on the drop-down, resulting in the school sending the transcript to the wrong college — “technically” the school sent it to the wrong place, but they did it BECAUSE of your daughters error. Do you not understand that? If not, there is a CC around here that might be able to help you with critical thinking.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just let it go op. FWIW I believe the school. It’s not like they would need to make up a story vs just saying oops our mistake we will fix it- they fix it either way. Your daughter is filling out literally hundreds of forms right now and it’s a tedious and redundant process. It’s highly likely that she mis clicked one box. You should probably have her bring the counseling office some chocolates as a thank you for jumping in off schedule and fixing her mistake. Teach your kid some graciousness and humility.

Uhhhh, no she isn't.

Tell me you don't know anything about the status of incoming freshman right now without telling you you don't know anything about incoming freshman.

Huh? My kid is filling out all sorts of forms.

+1 If your kid isn't, she is dropping the ball again.

You're missing the point. PP claimed OP was lying because her child was filling out "hundreds" of forms. That is, of course, a complete lie.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here.

Well, the majority of you are not only rude af, but you are wrong. The college AO called us to say everything was squared away and nothing more was needed " after the HS corrected their error"

They admitted to them that they sent it to the wrong school.

Yes - they sent it to the wrong school. But they didn't say why/how that happened. If it was your DD's fault, would you want the HS telling the college that?

Exactly. OP would be complaining if they had.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The HS did not communicate other than to send the transcript. In your story, they called and apologized foe their mistake. This did not happen.

OP here. You're just making stuff up now and I don't know why. Maybe you have a crappy life? Maybe your DD is fat, ugly and going to CC? I don't know. But the college did in fact speak with the guidance counselor and the counselor admitted that they sent the wrong transcript. There is no reason to make this up.

You lost me on “fat, ugly, and going to CC…”. You lost all credibility with me. There is nuance to the conversation the school had with the college, and the school doesn’t have time to participate in the blame game when all the college wants is the transcript. Your DD put in the wrong school on the drop-down, resulting in the school sending the transcript to the wrong college — “technically” the school sent it to the wrong place, but they did it BECAUSE of your daughters error. Do you not understand that? If not, there is a CC around here that might be able to help you with critical thinking.

You have no proof the DD sent it to the wrong school. You have her HS blaming her for it. Because the guidance counselor is probably scared sh*tless that he will lose his job for jeopardizing a kid's future.

This is DC, sweetie. Lots of parents around here are litigious over tiny things. You can bet heads will roll over something you keep calling minor.