Is it normal for sibling not to tell you they are having a baby?
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Anonymous
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I didn’t find out until after the baby was born.
We are not estranged. We exchange texts about twice a week. Is this something people are doing these days? |
Anonymous
| Uhhhh, that's really weird. |
Anonymous
| I don't believe this "story". |
Anonymous
| How did you not notice? You haven't seen her in a year? No pics online? Nothing mentioned in the family? |
Anonymous
| Do you know she gave birth versus adoption? Adoption can happen very suddenly. |
Anonymous
OP here. No to all. |
Anonymous
| Has she had prior losses? I know people who told no one after they had loss(es) until the baby was born alive and home. |
Anonymous
Not that I’m aware. |
Anonymous
Honestly, I don’t know if it’s real or a really elaborate prank. Either way I’m upset. |
Anonymous
| Is it a gay couple? |
Anonymous
No. |
Anonymous
| OP here. I’m starting to wonder if they used a surrogate. Would that make this any less weird? |
Anonymous
| This story is either fake or her sister did it for social media. It’s all around weird. |
Anonymous
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My BIL didn’t tell my DH that they were expecting until the day his twins were born. They already had an older DS, but also experienced losses.
This wouldn’t happen on my side of the family and I think it’s very strange since they are supposedly close. |
Anonymous
| Just wish her well and move on drama Queen. |