How do people in dead bedroom marriages cope?

[Anonymous]

How do they / you do it?

[Anonymous]

That's the least of our problems.

[Anonymous]

Look for emotional/ physical outlets elsewhere. No man or woman should go through life like this, because of some stupid marriage vow.

[Anonymous]

It is not that important

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's the least of our problems.

+1

Ha, true. For us, I'd say chronic low-level depression plus one foot in front of the other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's the least of our problems.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Exactly, the mental unstable spouse who verbally abuses everyone and demands child custody is my #1 issue. Not sleeping with him.

[Anonymous]

Personally I just don’t have any desire for it. I’m not sure if it’s a hormonal thing, depression, etc.

[Anonymous]

Money keeps them together.

These people are often close to retirement and neither wants to sacrifice their quality of life when they retire.

Marriage is great. But it can also be miserable and forces you to be with someone you don't want to be with until you die.

I haven't found my wife yet. I'm not in a hurry because I don't want to ever be in that situation.

[Anonymous]

They all have mental problems.

[Anonymous]

I masturbate. Everything else is great, so that suffices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is not that important

This
For me, I think for both of us.
We are happy in our lives. It’s all good.

[Anonymous]

Treat them like a roommate.

[Anonymous]

You know how. But if anybody says it on here they are the devil incarnate.

[Anonymous]

Try reading the dead bedroom fix. It did wonders for my brother and sister in law’s marriage.