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One thing about Ethan's culpability from that night is that we actually saw what unfolded whereas Harper did not.
It's one thing for me to watch those scenes and conclude "Ethan shouldn't have let Cameron into his room with those girls, but he didn't cheat and was pretty firm in choosing not to when presented with a very clear opportunity to do so." It's entirely different for Harper to TRUST that's the case based on the limited amount of information that Ethan has provided to her, after initially lying to her about what happened. So I think from an empirical standpoint, Ethan didn't do anything I would consider a violation of wedding vows that night. But I also think Harper is 100% justified in her anger, and not just because he initially lied (but that makes it so much worse). Like one of the reasons that Ethan shouldn't have let Cameron and the girls into his room is because he should have been thinking about how that situation would SOUND to his wife if/when she heard about it. He knew going in that Harper would be uncomfortable with that, would wonder why he felt the need to party with Cameron and these prostitutes when every other night of the vacation he has just sat in bed working on his computer. In context, that was a betrayal even though he "technically" did nothing wrong. And he should have known that. The fact that he went along with the partying even when he could have just gone to bed or gone somewhere else indicates that maybe, on some level, he was contemplating hooking up with one of the girls and wanted to keep the option open. These are the kinds of things that would be running through my mind if I were Harper at this point. Ethan didn't cheat but he also didn't act like someone who never had any intention of cheating. In a marriage, intentions matter a lot because fidelity is basically just intention until you finally die and can look back and see if it worked. |
I would say two hookers in your hotel room while I’m out of town is grounds for divorce but I guess I’m old fashioned. |
Tanya finds a gun in one of the previews. Maybe she figures out she's being had and kills someone in self-defense with the gun or accidently shoots Portia on the boat on the way back to the hotel from the villa. I want to say she accidently shoots Greg, because he comes back expecting that she's been taken care of and she sees him arguing with Tom Hollander about not killing her yet. |
I would never by that my husband didn't cheat if I found a wrapper like that in my hotel room when I got back. Ethan didn't, but if I was Harper I would not believe him. |
There are only two episodes left--if all these amazing scenes are going to happen, they better do so with a quickness. |
Sort of. Last season the show was trying to get us to think Shane killed Rachel pretty much from the get go. Or at least that Rachel died. We seem him in the airport alone looking sad, snap at someone when they ask about his wife, hear about the body being loaded on the plane, and see him looking sort of guilty or implicated by that. Then we watch as he is a total jerk and this fact starts to dawn on Rachel, they fight and he puts down her career. We also see Shane acting increasingly erratic. Then, after everyone hears about the break-ins and thefts, Shane gets a knife and says he wishes he had a weapon, and then almost immediately he and Rachel get into a huge fight and she says she regrets marrying him. All with the knife right there. So even though Shane and Armand are engaged in this petty battle the entire time, the show was focusing much more heavily on the conflict between Shane and Rachel and even repeatedly foreshadowing that Rachel is dead and also that Shane might have something to do with it. So yes, the stabbing of Armand winds up coming out of left field, with Shane using the knife that he got out to deal with robbers, and that seemed ominous in a fight with his wife, to accidentally kill the guy he'd been fighting with all along. And I certainly never anticipated that Armand would be the body on the plane (he didn't arrive on the boat so I could never have known his body would fly back with them) or that he would make a series of terrible choices that would result in Shane killing him. It all makes sense in retrospect but there is absolutely no way that even an astute watcher of the show could have guessed that sequence of events before it happened. I think Mike White likes to play with expectations and upend them, but will do so in a way that will seem obvious only in retrospect. |
| I think what was brutal about season 1 was everyone just shrugged at the end and the rich just leave this wake of fked up ness. He was just the help so who really cared? |
No, he didn't. He behaved badly, but most of it was by being adjacent to Cameron. Ethan is so passive--do you honestly think he was the impetus behind finding the girls, flirting with them, inviting them back to their room, and undressing them? He was just high and drunk and along for the ride. He rejected Mia's overtures. |
Yes. And the kicker was Rachel showing up at the airport all "ok I'll play this game so I can be rich with you." On the one hand, totally predictable based on what we know about her. On the other hand, especially painful to watch after her DH just killed someone and is facing absolutely no consequences for it. That's what got me about Season 1 -- the end was a surprise but then immediately I "got it", that this wasn't surprising at all and it was actually my expectations that the rich people on the show would evolve or be accountable in any way that were unrealistic. It reminded me of the way some of the best, darkly funny comics will play upon your naive beliefs about how the world works and make you laugh at something that's actually pretty depressing, because you're actually laughing at yourself for being dumb enough not to realize the truth in the first place. |
Okay, so you don't trust your husband. Sorry about that. |
I get the sense that Ethan is not normally this passive, and that his passive behavior towards Cameron on this trip is a big part of what is unsettling Harper. I think normally, Ethan is probably pretty direct and opinionated (he built and sold a tech business that has made them incredibly rich, he's probably not a pushover). I also bet that normally he and Harper are both kind of caustic and critical of people they think are less intelligent than them. You get glimpses of this. They seem like a couple who was attracted to each other for being curious, intelligent, and aware. They sit in bed and read books and work on their computers. They probably talk about work a lot and love that they both are so good at and interested in their jobs. I get the sense that if the met some random couple on a vacation and that couple was like "we don't vote or read! I love Dateline and we're friends with Jeff Bezos!" Ethan would be right there with Harper in skewering them later that night as vapid and stupid. But he's not doing that with Cameron and keep suggesting they are "fun". And you can tell Harper is just like "who are you and what did you do with my husband?" Like I just get the sense based on her interactions with him that he is acting VERY unusually. What reads as her being super negative and unpleasant to him is actually her being confused and frustrated because normally they'd cackle about the dump rich couple from dinner and instead he's suddenly defending them. Is it because he's newly rich and wants to be the dumb rich couple? Or is it because he's distracted by this longstanding beef with Cameron that is consuming him and making him withdraw into himself? It's very unclear. But I think normally Ethan would be rolling his eyes right along with Harper and they'd probably bond over their shared sense of superiority. Harper is frustrated that's not happening and it's making her feel very distant from her husband during a huge shift in their financial circumstances due to his job, not hers. And it's making her insecure. |
| I hated how Ethan lied to Harper, tried to gaslight her (“I didn’t actually lie to you”) and was weak. But he did make one point that I could understand - he didn’t want it to become a huge drama while still there. If I were in his shoes, I might do the same thing - because I didn’t do anything, just keep quiet until we got on the plane and then unload with “you cannot believe what happened when we were away in Noto!” |
The HBO show Succession is this 100%. |
I actually think Albie is at risk particularly with how Lucia plays so recklessly with drugs. I don't see him becoming some sexist incel but I can imagine him being drunk and encouraged to take whatever crazy stuff Lucia has. |
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