I’m not trying to persuade anyone of anything. It’s a discussion forum and I post my POV. You get worked up about it and think you’re throwing zingers and insults. Ok, but I don’t really care. |
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I’m not the big law poster but I agree with her that you can totally self destruct your life but it doesn’t justify a conservatorship over you, in a legal sense. People have the right to make terrible decisions and a large number of people exercise that right.
It’s all very sad. I feel really bad for her kids. It’s bad enough when your mom is a hot mess but this is so public. |
I’m not worked up about anything. Instead of substantively engaging, you’re just insulting me, which isn’t really effective at making a point. But keep at it if it makes you happy. |
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Except the Court hearing Britney’s case disagreed and that’s why she was in a conservatorship. The conservatorship only ended because her dad did not seek its renewal due to public pressure. |
| A court found Britney needed to be in a conservatorship and she actually had the only stable period in her adult life while under it. People seem fixated on the LV residency and fine, that should have gone away if it wasn’t what she wanted. She needed the treatment for her apparently serious mental illness, and like many seriously mentally ill, lacks the capacity to see the need for it. When she was what you call “heavily medicated,” she was coherent and able to maintain stable relationships with a boyfriend and her children. Not so now. |
Yes, but I think there is such a disconnect between her wealth enabling her to technically "take care of herself" and the scope of her illness that it's really hard to address and reconcile. Usually someone with her degree of mental illness would not have financial and logistical resources and be homeless in the streets or living in dangerous hoarder conditions. But she has a maid, an accountant, various people there so that part does not happen, and it feels like she perhaps does not "need" the conservatorship...Except then it also means her mental health needs are going neglected, and this can still endanger her and others. |
Well yes, but it also seems that people arguing for “ freedom” don’t have first hand experience with family members or others with serious mental illness. The illness dramatically affects their ability/competence to make decisions about what is or isn’t in their best interest. |
Your assumption is inaccurate. My father has bipolar and drug and alcohol addiction. |
I’m not so much arguing for her freedom more than arguing that Kevin Federline and Jamie Spears were not fit to run the conservatorship and showed time and time again that they did not have her best interest at heart. I also think the way they used her children against her well before the conservativeship was cruel, inhumane, and greatly contributed to her mental health downfall. While it was clear that she should not have unfettered access to her children until she became more stable, the children should not have been used to bribe her to perform and that is what they did. Jamie Spears was not fit to take care of himself. Google recent images of him, his extreme alcoholism has led to total destruction of his body, luckily he has some money left over that he can afford a full-time caregiver as he’s not able to manage by himself. Kevin Federalline has mismanaged his finances so much that he was absolutely desperate when the child support payments dried up and had to sell that book which was a failure. |
No, people DON'T have the right to drive drunk. If they choose to destroy their own lives in the desert, then ok. If their choices endanger the lives of others like Britney driving for an hour drunk and/or on drugs, then absolutely no. Lock them up in a hospital or prison. |
You go to prison. You’re not put in a conservatorship. |
If you think that's preferable, then so be it. Prison for anyone with multiple DUIs. |
Do you actually know these people or do you just get your info from TMZ and People? I don’t ever remember Kevin trying to be the conservator. You seem very naive re dealing with a family member who is seriously mentally ill and an addict, and that’s probably a good thing since that would mean you don’t have that in your family. Unfortunately I do. She doesn’t have any right to drive drunk or subject anyone to her mental illness. She is an adult. She makes her own choices. Either she’s too mentally ill because of what everyone has done to her so it’s not her fault OR she has enough agency to be allowed to make choices so she doesn’t need a conservator. What is it? I wish she was well. I wish her kids had a healthier mother. |
DUI doesn't typically result in any significant prison time. Nor does it necessarily help get her mental health treatment. It's too bad there's not some version of mental health parole where you have someone monitoring that you're participating in mental health care while still having some ability to have freedoms. Especially if it's clear that you could be a danger to others, e.g., driving drunk, if you are not receiving appropriate mental health treatment. I agree that a conservatorship seems like it's a bit much, but she's not really just choosing this life either because her mental health isn't in a place where she's capable of making choices. |