Are affairs with Au Pairs common?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depends what the man has to offer, especially after a divorce. If his net worth and earning potential will still be high after splitting assets, anything goes.

Please don’t act like women (especially those who are barely out of adolescence) approach relationships with the mindset of a venture capitalist.

Your misogyny is showing.

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Anonymous wrote:We have had 5 AP’s and they were all 18-20 yr old Europeans who thought my husband was like a middle age dad joke kinda guy and honestly he’s a catch tall, dark and handsome. They all kinda think the dads are duds here in the US believe me — with the apps these days they get their action elsewhere

Yeah, no. Hot 40-something guys are still very attractive to young women (remember that crush you had on your college professor?). But if it makes you feel better to think that your “joke” of a husband is really a “catch,” by all means go for it.

I slept with (2) of my professors! They were indeed hot 40-somehtings (and married).

Ate you bragging?

Because this makes you sound pretty trashy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would you hire an au pair who you think is a stunner? You already sound insecure. I've never hired an attractive nanny. As far as I know, my husband has never cheated, so it's more about my own fears and insecurities, but I value my peace of mind.

Chalk up another win for internalized misogyny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All depends on how hot the au pair is relative to the wife. if one is smoking and one a pig, what do you expect to happen? and if they are about the same, the "grass is greener" and forbidden fruit dynamics come into play.
This is not rocket science; do you really need to ask?

Can you not call women pigs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

What do you do if the start running around in skimpy little outfits/pj’s etc??

[Anonymous]

Not gross at all. It's actually super hot. I see it happen fairly often in Bethesda homes.

Anonymous wrote:Gross

[Anonymous]

Yes, it happens in 14.6% of cases of Au Pair positions.

[Anonymous]

Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We have had 5 AP’s and they were all 18-20 yr old Europeans who thought my husband was like a middle age dad joke kinda guy and honestly he’s a catch tall, dark and handsome. They all kinda think the dads are duds here in the US believe me — with the apps these days they get their action elsewhere

Yeah, no. Hot 40-something guys are still very attractive to young women (remember that crush you had on your college professor?). But if it makes you feel better to think that your “joke” of a husband is really a “catch,” by all means go for it.

I slept with (2) of my professors! They were indeed hot 40-somehtings (and married).

Ate you bragging?

Because this makes you sound pretty trashy.

One of my sorority sisters did this twenty years ago and she’s still single and childless. She’s been a permanent other woman for her whole adult life.

All of them have used her temporarily. She prefers that to actual commitment for some reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, it happens in 14.6% of cases of Au Pair positions.

And here I thought it happened in 13.47% of placements.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.

What? Really?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.

What? Really?

I just looked it up and it seems true.
They also ban nursing mothers from nursing anywhere except the “bride’s room.”

🤮

[Anonymous]

I know two Easter European au pairs who used their jobs to meet men. Both are now married to high earning American men. That’s the American way

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The man was a window but basically that was the story line in A Sound of Music

A window?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ours is a stunner.

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