10 year old told me he thinks spouse is cheating on me -- advice?

[Anonymous]

Google "why do married men cheat" and the top hits literally say "dissatisfaction with the marriage either emotionally or sexually"

I have so many theories about you and your one-track narrative. Primarily I think you are really not very bright, spouting off google “facts” like and implying causation. You really seem to have no idea how to research and analyze. And you come across as the most miserable person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Google "why do married men cheat" and the top hits literally say "dissatisfaction with the marriage either emotionally or sexually"

I have so many theories about you and your one-track narrative. Primarily I think you are really not very bright, spouting off google “facts” like and implying causation. You really seem to have no idea how to research and analyze. And you come across as the most miserable person.

He comes off as a cheater doing everything in his power to justify cheating to himself and others.

[Anonymous]

Update?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been thinking of you, OP, and imagining this has been a hellacious time for you. I hope our advice was useful. Take care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Google "why do married men cheat" and the top hits literally say "dissatisfaction with the marriage either emotionally or sexually"

I have so many theories about you and your one-track narrative. Primarily I think you are really not very bright, spouting off google “facts” like and implying causation. You really seem to have no idea how to research and analyze. And you come across as the most miserable person.

I totally agree PP.
They don't seem to know how aggregates work either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^ he’s bringing up a reminder that “cheater does not equal male”. Many, many wives are cheats in this day and age...and quite proficient on dating apps. They have the time too- pre-Covid when the spouse was at work and kids at school...that’s 6 hours to fit in a boning.

"6 hours to fit in a boning..." charming.
Shocking that you're the authority on cheating, I can't imagine why you would be. 🤔

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ he’s bringing up a reminder that “cheater does not equal male”. Many, many wives are cheats in this day and age...and quite proficient on dating apps. They have the time too- pre-Covid when the spouse was at work and kids at school...that’s 6 hours to fit in a boning.

"6 hours to fit in a boning..." charming.
Shocking that you're the authority on cheating, I can't imagine why you would be. 🤔

What else does she have on the agenda? 5 days a week with kids in school (pre-Covid) all day, she could fit in a lot of boning . A lot of hos can’t wait for the vaccine!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should look at his phone.

+1. I am sure your child agonized over telling you and may not have told you everything he saw.

If your kid was brave enough to come to you with this info, you need to be brave enough to do you own investigation — look at his phone, look at credit card bills, computer history, etc.

+1000. Don't say anything else to you child and funny day anything AT ALL to your spouse yet, but do all the above if you want the truth before the evidence disappears. It is hard not to show any hint of suspicion, but I really advise you to try not to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should look at his phone.

+1. I am sure your child agonized over telling you and may not have told you everything he saw.

If your kid was brave enough to come to you with this info, you need to be brave enough to do you own investigation — look at his phone, look at credit card bills, computer history, etc.

+1000. Don't say anything else to you child and funny day anything AT ALL to your spouse yet, but do all the above if you want the truth before the evidence disappears. It is hard not to show any hint of suspicion, but I really advise you to try not to.

*Don't say, not "funny day"!