If your son sexually assaulted a girl WWYD?

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Look at the.data. People are not born pedophiles. 1 in 5 boys are Rape so I st blame mothers.for.that.

Rape is different.

You blame mothers for boys being raped? What mothers were in the locker rooms of MCPS HS? What mothers were on the BS troop camping trips?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

Did your DS or DH rape a child?

[Anonymous]

I went to a school like Saint Paul’s, and I also read that story. I felt very bad for the girl. She was absolutely wronged by every adult, including her parents after they learned she had been sexually active. I have two daughters and sometimes dream of sending them to boarding school. If they wanted to go, and got in, I’d have to be very frank with them— never go in a boys room. There are very strict rules against it unless you have permission and the door is open, feet on the floor etc. I was too shy to do anything beyond innocent, but I can imagine that things could quickly get out of hand if the girl gives boys an opportunity. And I wouldn’t necessarily totally blame the boys. They’re young and inexperienced too.

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

Did your DS or DH rape a child?

PP: no, to both — how is that question relevant?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

Did your DS or DH rape a child?

PP: no, to both — how is that question relevant?

I was simply asking a question.

[Anonymous]

Well that went awry

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

Did your DS or DH rape a child?

PP: no, to both — how is that question relevant?

I was simply asking a question.

PP: And I answered it and didn’t accuse you of leaping, only asking relevance...my original question wasn’t answered, just attacked.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Np: that is an astronomical leap, you obviously have an agenda here...were you assaulted as a child and your mother didn’t protect you?

So you accusing me of making an astronomical leap and now you're making the same leap? Hm.

There's something very "off" about a woman who would try to "ruin" a girl for reporting a rape. I'm just trying to figure out what messed her up.

PP: I didn’t make a leap, I asked a question. Yours was a statement, not a question; thus, the huge leap/assumption.

Did your DS or DH rape a child?

PP: no, to both — how is that question relevant?

I was simply asking a question.

PP: And I answered it and didn’t accuse you of leaping, only asking relevance...my original question wasn’t answered, just attacked.

You obviously have an agenda here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

FU, no it doesn't! You're making stuff up that has no bearing in reality. The reality is that the overwhelming majority of campus rapes go unreported.

-- Person who was raped in college and didn't report it

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I've been raped twice and didn't report either. You have no idea what victims go through.

If you don’t report it, you lose the right to bitch about nothing being done to perpetrator.

Let’s see. If you a woman reports being raped she’s lying. If a woman doesn’t report her rape she loses the right to talk about it. What is a woman supposed to do? Or do you just not believe that rape happens?

I feel the same way about snitches get stitches culture. If you don’t report the bad actors you are part of the problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Look at the.data. People are not born pedophiles. 1 in 5 boys are Rape so I st blame mothers.for.that.

Rape is different.

You blame mothers for boys being raped? What mothers were in the locker rooms of MCPS HS? What mothers were on the BS troop camping trips?

Sorry that was a typo. No i.don't blame moms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

FU, no it doesn't! You're making stuff up that has no bearing in reality. The reality is that the overwhelming majority of campus rapes go unreported.

-- Person who was raped in college and didn't report it

+1
I've been raped twice and didn't report either. You have no idea what victims go through.

If you don’t report it, you lose the right to bitch about nothing being done to perpetrator.

Let’s see. If you a woman reports being raped she’s lying. If a woman doesn’t report her rape she loses the right to talk about it. What is a woman supposed to do? Or do you just not believe that rape happens?

I feel the same way about snitches get stitches culture. If you don’t report the bad actors you are part of the problem.

Except cops don't care and it won't be prosecuted.

Watch the movie Unbelievable. My h.did rape investigations and it is spot on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Look at the.data. People are not born pedophiles. 1 in 5 boys are Rape so I st blame mothers.for.that.

Rape is different.

Right. So if your DS were raped the blame is firmly on you. I'm glad we agree.

Okay Karen

You said you would ruin someone if they accused your son of rape. I don't think you're in the position to call other people "Karen".

I was not the OP I was just.pointing out most peop!e that rape a 6 yo were victims of rape as kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Look at the.data. People are not born pedophiles. 1 in 5 boys are Rape so I st blame mothers.for.that.

Rape is different.

Right. So if your DS were raped the blame is firmly on you. I'm glad we agree.

Okay Karen

You said you would ruin someone if they accused your son of rape. I don't think you're in the position to call other people "Karen".

I was not the OP I was just.pointing out most peop!e that rape a 6 yo were victims of rape as kids.

Cite?

Also, why can't you write?

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Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if he raped a 6 year old would this still be your view? If not, why does the age change your opinion?

It would make me think he was also rsped as a child so yes.

But if he raped a woman you wouldn't think he was raped? I'm starting to see why you have your opinion. Your DH probably did something messed up to your son and you never had an appropriate outlet for your anger, so you would try to "ruin" another person because of all the hurt your family went though.

In short: a bad mother who doesn't protect her children when they actually need protection.

Look at the.data. People are not born pedophiles. 1 in 5 boys are Rape so I st blame mothers.for.that.

Rape is different.

Right. So if your DS were raped the blame is firmly on you. I'm glad we agree.

Okay Karen

You said you would ruin someone if they accused your son of rape. I don't think you're in the position to call other people "Karen".

I was not the OP I was just.pointing out most peop!e that rape a 6 yo were victims of rape as kids.

Cite?

Also, why can't you write?

Yea I’m not use to my new keyboard.

Google percentage of pedophiles that were victims.

I’m not doing the research for you.

But it’s like 95% of child rape victims do not become rapists but 99% of pedophile were victims of rape as a child.