If your son sexually assaulted a girl WWYD?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

It’s not what good parents do. Good parents don’t enable rapists just because the victim is someone else’s family member.

I think shielding kids from the consequences of their actions isn’t really protecting them. I love my kid unconditionally, and I would support him, get him a lawyer. But I would not expect to protect him from all consequences and I would encourage him to take responsibility for his actions.

[Anonymous]

What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

And if your daughter were sexually assaulted?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

I know or literally no “boys” ruined, I know of many women suffering the after effects of sexual assault and rape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

Ah, of course. It’s only wrong if it’s YOUR daughter who was harmed. Everyone else’s daughters can go f* off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

I mean, if you have the resources to lawyer up that’s what you might do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

Wow, no. You think your love for your son makes it okay to make an already traumatized woman's life worse, while helping your son avoid accountability and growth?

[Anonymous]

Rape is very difficult to prove.

[Anonymous]

My family is full of law enforcement and everybody has the right to a quality defense.

It's insane that you would abandon your child no matter the situation.

Id get a lawyer, get him a therapist and supporthim.

Just like if my daughter made a false accusation.

Do the crime do the time. But I believe in grace.

You should read Just Mercy of you don't understand the concept.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rape is very difficult to prove.

Almost impossible.

My H did rape investigations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

Found Brock's mom.

You're a disgrace to the human race.

[Anonymous]

I would make clear to my son that I will always love him and I believe he can be better than this, but that he absolutely needs to make things as right as possible from here on out, and to make sure it never, ever happens again. That would include being as honest and apologetic to the victim as possible, pleading guilty and serving his time, and a lot of therapy and self-reflection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

The number of girls ruined far outnumbers the boys. The number of actual sexual assaults far outnumbers the number of false claims.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My family is full of law enforcement and everybody has the right to a quality defense.

It's insane that you would abandon your child no matter the situation.

Id get a lawyer, get him a therapist and supporthim.

Just like if my daughter made a false accusation.

Do the crime do the time. But I believe in grace.

You should read Just Mercy of you don't understand the concept.

+1 finished it yesterday. What an eye-opening piece.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What if your daughter got drunk and hooked up with a college guy, then the next day her friends were all gossiping so she decides to say she was raped because she was drunk and so she said she couldn’t consent. Then the boy gets kicked out of college. Happens every day. The girl needs to take responsibility for this. Too many ruined boys from retroactive guilt or embarrassment.

I know or literally no “boys” ruined, I know of many women suffering the after effects of sexual assault and rape.

How would claiming rape quiet the gossip exactly?