If your son sexually assaulted a girl WWYD?

[Anonymous]

Just as a defense lawyer is supposed to be on his side, I would also be on my DS's side.

And I have a DS and DD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

Unfortunately, this is exactly what parents do. And then, they find out about the other girls or years later, the women in college and in his office.

I know of around three guys who were accused in what were BS cases and in each case it really left a mark on the boys. They each ended up getting happily married and would never get themselves into a situation like that again. It takes two.

IT TAKES TWO???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would call the police. Not paying for a defense lawyer either.

OMG you belong in Hell. Do you ever think if you had a granddaughter or daughter who was sexually assaulted Would you appreciate someone ruining her? Heck What if YOU were assulted ( assuming you are a woman) Hope no one believes you.

Karma!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

I don’t have a son but I know it is easy for everyone to say “I would turn him in” but if the majority of us were presented with that situation, I’m sure most of us would do anything to defend their child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If it were my son I wouldn’t believe it and I would get the best defense and investigators and try to ruin the girl. Just being honest.

Unfortunately, this is exactly what parents do. And then, they find out about the other girls or years later, the women in college and in his office.

I know of around three guys who were accused in what were BS cases and in each case it really left a mark on the boys. They each ended up getting happily married and would never get themselves into a situation like that again. It takes two. [/quote

Yes, poor boys. ]

[Anonymous]

I would be on his side in the sense of I’d want to hear his side, but if it seemed true, I would get him counseling and he’d know how absolutely disappointed and angry I was. He’s have to earn back our respect, learn more about the issues (whether drinking too much, etc) that lead to this despicable behavior. I’d love him but it’d be hard to forgive

[Anonymous]

Theoretical blah, blah, blah. The overwhelming majority of privileged mommies would circle the wagons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You will be surprised but most of the parents will be either in denial that their child would ever do something like that, or go into a full protective mode (top lawyers, etc.). I've never seen any parent turning their child in, and I worked in a criminal system for many years.

Yeah, I mean I’m not sure any of us can possibly know how we would react but I do know I love my son (who is only 10) unconditionally and I’d guess that unless the assault was against my daughter/his sister, I’d go to the end of the Earth to protect him. Isn’t that what parents do? Just being honest here.

NO!!!!! What if someone assaulted your daughter? Would you be ok with the boy's parents doing what you claim you would do?

You do the crime than you do the time. Doesn't mean my love would stop but, come ON!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would call the police. Not paying for a defense lawyer either.

OMG you belong in Hell. Do you ever think if you had a granddaughter or daughter who was sexually assaulted Would you appreciate someone ruining her? Heck What if YOU were assulted ( assuming you are a woman) Hope no one believes you.

Karma!

Uh, I think you misread the post you responded to. She said she would call the police on her son, and not pay for a defense lawyer for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would call the police. Not paying for a defense lawyer either.

OMG you belong in Hell. Do you ever think if you had a granddaughter or daughter who was sexually assaulted Would you appreciate someone ruining her? Heck What if YOU were assulted ( assuming you are a woman) Hope no one believes you.

Karma!

? Think you responded to wrong person.

[Anonymous]

I would love my son but I would not defend him or pay for defense unless I could be absolutely sure he did not do it.

[Anonymous]

I’ve talked to my older teen about my own assault, and other women I have known who have dealt with similar. I can only hope that would somehow be on his mind . I have no evidence he treats girls poorly, and if I did, he would be hearing from my husband and I for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would call the police. Not paying for a defense lawyer either.

OMG you belong in Hell. Do you ever think if you had a granddaughter or daughter who was sexually assaulted Would you appreciate someone ruining her? Heck What if YOU were assulted ( assuming you are a woman) Hope no one believes you.

Karma!

? Think you responded to wrong person.

oops my bad

[Anonymous]

When I was 25, I was accused of molesting a neighbor's kid. This was a retaliatory move because I called the police on her older brother who was throwing rocks at my car (captured with a video recorded (pre cell phone) from my bedroom.

I was accused but never arrested. Why? Well, the girl said I was repeatedly stalking her, and flashing her. Three days in a row. On the third day, the police (unbeknownst to me) had a tail on me. They saw that I left my place at 7:00 AM or so, Drove to the university where I was a grad student, went in to the lab, and was working from 7:20 on, only leaving to get coffee and go to the bathroom. The police knew where I was, and the girl claimed I tried to molest her. I think they thought they would bust me, but they did not.

I don't know what happened to the girl. I moved out of the neighborhood (landlord let me break the lease).

With that said, reaction would be very different if he did assult a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would call the police. Not paying for a defense lawyer either.

OMG you belong in Hell. Do you ever think if you had a granddaughter or daughter who was sexually assaulted Would you appreciate someone ruining her? Heck What if YOU were assulted ( assuming you are a woman) Hope no one believes you.

Karma!

Did you reply to the wrong post?

I’m the person who you are telling to go to hell. I am a sexual assault survivor. One of my daughters is a survivor. I’m saying I would call the police on my son if I thought or knew he sexually assaulted someone. And I would not pay for his defense either.

I don’t know why you are attacking me, but we are on the same side.