Let's talk about ghosts

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else find it depressing that after you die, you’re still hanging around doing the same old sh-t? I can’t think of anything worse than spending eternity watching some dude sleep in a B&B.

Most people cross over fairly quickly after death. They are not hanging around. They visit us when they feel we need them or when we invite them to. Usually when we use the term “ghosts “ we are referring to earthbound spirits. They have not crossed over. There are several reasons why they resist crossing. Sometimes they are scared and confused. Usually those ghosts aren’t here for very long. Someone will guide them. But the decision to cross over is always there’s. We have free will even after death. Sometimes dead people hang around because they fear judgment. They have nothing to fear, but they don’t always understand this right away. Sometimes dead people refuse to cross over because they are attached to some time of addition on earth - sex, drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc. And sometimes dead people won’t cross simply because they are asshats. They enjoy causing fear and chaos. They enjoy seeing people terrified. They enjoy torturing the living using terror. Those are the worst kinds of ghosts. Regardless of reason, we control things in our earth reality. We have dominion. When we say go, they must go. The problem is, most people don’t understand how to run their dominion. And ghosts know when we don’t know. They feed on that fear.

Your loved ones who have crossed over are not ghosts. They are spiritual beings. When you communicate with a spirit it feels completely different. /psychic medium

So curious about your expertise. Who annointed you queen of the spirit world?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It always astounds me how people on this forum, who I assume are generally well educated, believe such ridiculous crap.

There are low density beings and lighter beings.

You'll be around those who share your level of vibration. So if you don't believe in this "ridiculous crap," you'll be around others who don't believe either. That should make you happy, as they will validate your feelings.

Having said that, why are you bothering to post on this thread if you don't believe? Are you that angry that you feel the need to slap down those of us who do?

I'm not the poster that you're referring to but I'll criticize you because this is ignorant crap perpetuated by people who don't understand science and basic math. The crap you are blathering on about is often used to manipulate people who are grieving. You don't know anything but about spirits but you've made up a lot of ridiculousness and it makes you feel powerful. It's all about you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else find it depressing that after you die, you’re still hanging around doing the same old sh-t? I can’t think of anything worse than spending eternity watching some dude sleep in a B&B.

No, but I guess that has to do with my belief in the soul and our purpose in life. A lost soul- one that you might describe as staying in a B&b, may not accept the fact that they are dead, or are waiting for someone they think they need to move to the next phase of their journey, or are so attached to a physical location on earth that they simply cannot leave it, even when given the free will to go do not choose to do so.

For some reason, those souls are stuck. Interventions, like acknowledging their presence and asking/telling them to move in may be the shoulder shaking they need.

Pray tell, how does one “accept” or “think” anything when they no longer have a brain?

The same way you do.

[Anonymous]

My mother lived with us for 15 years before she died a couple of years ago. She was always the first one up and always made coffee early in the morning. For about a year after she died, I would wake up and smell coffee in the house even though nobody else was up and no coffee had been made. It eventually stopped and it may have been psychosomatic, but I clearly smelled it every morning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

[Anonymous]

When I was a junior in college, I shared a house with 2 friends. I loved that house. It wasn't that late but, I was asleep when my younger brother, Larlo, started talking to me. He had addiction issues, had spent some time in the county jail and you never knew which Larlo you were going to get when you interacted with him. I was groggy but he was telling me that he was doing better. He sounded better. We only spoke for a few moments and I went back to sleep.

The next thing I know, the phone is ringing and my mother tells me Larlo had killed himself at the home he shared with our mom. I was confused because I was just talking to him and he'd said he was doing better. It's been over 30 years and I've never felt him again. I've felt my paternal grandmother but I think, as much as Larlo loved me, this earth was too painful for him and he can't bring himself to visit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was a junior in college, I shared a house with 2 friends. I loved that house. It wasn't that late but, I was asleep when my younger brother, Larlo, started talking to me. He had addiction issues, had spent some time in the county jail and you never knew which Larlo you were going to get when you interacted with him. I was groggy but he was telling me that he was doing better. He sounded better. We only spoke for a few moments and I went back to sleep.

The next thing I know, the phone is ringing and my mother tells me Larlo had killed himself at the home he shared with our mom. I was confused because I was just talking to him and he'd said he was doing better. It's been over 30 years and I've never felt him again. I've felt my paternal grandmother but I think, as much as Larlo loved me, this earth was too painful for him and he can't bring himself to visit.

I'm very sorry for your loss, and for your brother's pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It always astounds me how people on this forum, who I assume are generally well educated, believe such ridiculous crap.

There are low density beings and lighter beings.

You'll be around those who share your level of vibration. So if you don't believe in this "ridiculous crap," you'll be around others who don't believe either. That should make you happy, as they will validate your feelings.

Having said that, why are you bothering to post on this thread if you don't believe? Are you that angry that you feel the need to slap down those of us who do?

I'm not the poster that you're referring to but I'll criticize you because this is ignorant crap perpetuated by people who don't understand science and basic math. The crap you are blathering on about is often used to manipulate people who are grieving. You don't know anything but about spirits but you've made up a lot of ridiculousness and it makes you feel powerful. It's all about you.

I am a different poster, but I have connected with loved ones in spirit. I am not a medium, but have learned how to connect after starting meditation. There is a HEAVY manipulative practice that unfortunately runs rampant in the spiritual community, but there are definitely legitimate psychics and mediums out there. In fact, we are ALL psychic...even those who claim it to be BS. It's that feeling you get when you answer the phone and know who it is before they begin speaking. It's running into an old friend who you haven't seen in years, but they popped into your mind shortly before that. Psychics can quiet their minds enough to tune into that "energy". Have you ever seen what Tibetan Monks can do?!

It's completely understandable that you get upset by the con artists, as well you should. However, it is real. I have connected and the few times I did it, I had information about the deceased loved one that there was no way for me to get without me actually connecting to them. It was pretty wild to be honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else find it depressing that after you die, you’re still hanging around doing the same old sh-t? I can’t think of anything worse than spending eternity watching some dude sleep in a B&B.

Most people cross over fairly quickly after death. They are not hanging around. They visit us when they feel we need them or when we invite them to. Usually when we use the term “ghosts “ we are referring to earthbound spirits. They have not crossed over. There are several reasons why they resist crossing. Sometimes they are scared and confused. Usually those ghosts aren’t here for very long. Someone will guide them. But the decision to cross over is always there’s. We have free will even after death. Sometimes dead people hang around because they fear judgment. They have nothing to fear, but they don’t always understand this right away. Sometimes dead people refuse to cross over because they are attached to some time of addition on earth - sex, drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc. And sometimes dead people won’t cross simply because they are asshats. They enjoy causing fear and chaos. They enjoy seeing people terrified. They enjoy torturing the living using terror. Those are the worst kinds of ghosts. Regardless of reason, we control things in our earth reality. We have dominion. When we say go, they must go. The problem is, most people don’t understand how to run their dominion. And ghosts know when we don’t know. They feed on that fear.

Your loved ones who have crossed over are not ghosts. They are spiritual beings. When you communicate with a spirit it feels completely different. /psychic medium

So curious about your expertise. Who annointed you queen of the spirit world?

I’m a different poster who posted almost exactly the same thing a few posts back. No one is claiming to be queen of anything. We all have access to the spirit world. Some of us have chosen to develop those skills. If you work with spirit, you just know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

I’m not great at distance reading. It shouldn’t matter because time and space aren’t a thing in the spirit world. But, I have always had difficulty connecting from a distance. There is a reader on dcum who is really good at it.

That said, I see a male figure. And go ahead and laugh, but he looks kinda like Abraham Lincoln. Very tall. Dark hair. Beard. Black suit. And he is showing me a pipe. A sidewalk. But I see those often when I read people. I think it’s meant to show a path maybe? He is showing me rolling green hills. I don’t think he is related to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, they can see us having sex?

No. They don’t see us in our physical form. They see us the same way we see them. Usually they see our higher selves as light.

OK! Thank God!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

I’m not great at distance reading. It shouldn’t matter because time and space aren’t a thing in the spirit world. But, I have always had difficulty connecting from a distance. There is a reader on dcum who is really good at it.

That said, I see a male figure. And go ahead and laugh, but he looks kinda like Abraham Lincoln. Very tall. Dark hair. Beard. Black suit. And he is showing me a pipe. A sidewalk. But I see those often when I read people. I think it’s meant to show a path maybe? He is showing me rolling green hills. I don’t think he is related to you.

I’m next! I’m next!! What do you around me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

I’m not great at distance reading. It shouldn’t matter because time and space aren’t a thing in the spirit world. But, I have always had difficulty connecting from a distance. There is a reader on dcum who is really good at it.

That said, I see a male figure. And go ahead and laugh, but he looks kinda like Abraham Lincoln. Very tall. Dark hair. Beard. Black suit. And he is showing me a pipe. A sidewalk. But I see those often when I read people. I think it’s meant to show a path maybe? He is showing me rolling green hills. I don’t think he is related to you.

I’m next! I’m next!! What do you around me?

Sorry, what do you see around me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

I’m not great at distance reading. It shouldn’t matter because time and space aren’t a thing in the spirit world. But, I have always had difficulty connecting from a distance. There is a reader on dcum who is really good at it.

That said, I see a male figure. And go ahead and laugh, but he looks kinda like Abraham Lincoln. Very tall. Dark hair. Beard. Black suit. And he is showing me a pipe. A sidewalk. But I see those often when I read people. I think it’s meant to show a path maybe? He is showing me rolling green hills. I don’t think he is related to you.

Interesting - thanks! Someone who has already “crossed over”?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a psychic medium. Spiritual beings and ghosts are literally an everyday occurrence in my life. We live in a very diverse spiritual ecosystem. We are not the only ones sharing this space. Most people have just forgotten how to perceive.

Do you see anyone around me? Trying to tell me anything, or just observing? How would I know? Thanks in advance.

I’m not great at distance reading. It shouldn’t matter because time and space aren’t a thing in the spirit world. But, I have always had difficulty connecting from a distance. There is a reader on dcum who is really good at it.

That said, I see a male figure. And go ahead and laugh, but he looks kinda like Abraham Lincoln. Very tall. Dark hair. Beard. Black suit. And he is showing me a pipe. A sidewalk. But I see those often when I read people. I think it’s meant to show a path maybe? He is showing me rolling green hills. I don’t think he is related to you.

Interesting - thanks! Someone who has already “crossed over”?

Most definitely! And very much there for good. Absolutely protective and loving. Maybe a spirit guide? I just don’t get an ancestor connection. But I could be wrong.