Too much Christmas Education in my Public School

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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
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Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Your perspective is all wrong. Perhaps there are some people for whom Christmas is TRULY secular, and they also celebrate secular Hannukah and secular Eid and secular Diwali. But Christmas is ALSO a major CHRISTIAN holiday, for many people and in the religion. Hence, when a NON-CHRISTIAN child must celebrate Christmas in a public school, there's no way to say "Oh, that's just secular!" Because although Christmas to some is secular, it's undeniable religious at the same time. You can't just sever Christmas from all its historical religious roots. That's the whole point.


Mainline churches are dying. Christmas is a cultural holiday.

I go to a church service, have an Advent wreath. Those are a very small part of the Christmas season, which is a big cultural holiday. Some people celebrate both, some only one or the other.


The point is - to a non Christian, Christmas is a religious holiday. You may personally decide to celebrate it in a secular way, but the symbolism (including Santa and the tree) is likely religious.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
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Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Agree. Parents like to give gifts to their children. On a kids bday, they receive gifts from mom and dad. So why is Santa needed at Christmas? Mom and dad can give their kids gifts during the winter without him.


Right. Christmas doesn't mean anything at all ... so let's just not have it in public schools! Done.


Christmas does mean something because it is a cultural tradition in the United States. That's why it is a federal holiday (while Easter is NOT a federal holiday). While some people celebrate the religious aspects of Christmas, many do not. We are not religious and have a Christmas tree, hang lights, have an elf that hides in our house, etc.

If you don't allow kids to celebrate any reference to Christmas at schools the next step is to get rid of the following holidays at school:

St. Valentine's Day- it originates from Christian martyrs (offensive to non-Christians) and emphasizes romantic relationships between a man and woman (might be offensive to some people)

St.Patrick Day - obvious Christian holiday, why are we celebrating a Saint's Day? I don't care that there are fun leprechaun ideas, the origin is Christian

Halloween - obviously offensive to some Christians

Thanksgiving- obviously offensive to vegans and vegetarians. Why is my kid coloring a turkey at school when this holiday is about slaughtering an intelligent animal?

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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
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Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


For Christmas. In case you're not aware, Santa isn't in the Christian Bible, nor are elves. And the tradition of the Christmas tree comes from pagan celebrations, and was brought indoors in a German tradition. Many people aren't even aware that Santa Claus is a corruption of St. Nicholas and do not venerate him as a Saint, but as a magical creature like a leprechaun. Just as people celebrate St. Patricks Day as a secular celebration, and not a religious veneration of another Saint.


Santa, elves, etc, are all undeniably associated with Christmas, which is a religious holiday (as well as being a secular holiday). There's no way to divorce them. You may personally practice secular Christmas, but the symbols are also religious, and you can't remove that linkage by fiat.


Tell me where I'm getting it wrong.

Christmas is a religious celebration.
Christmas is a secular celebration.
I think we both agree with those statements.
Christmas, both secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that a majority culture in the US celebrates. I think we're still on the same page here.
Christmas, secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that several minority cultures in the US don't celebrate. I think we're still on the same page.
Because the US has many cultures, one culture's traditions shouldn't dominate and that requires special care when dealing with the cultural traditions of the majority because it can appear to be everywhere. Still on the same page?
Because of religious sensitivity and our Constitutional requirement to not have state-sponsored religions, we need to be particularly careful if a religious tradition appears to be supported by our state institutions. So we will want to err on the side of a christmas tree on the statehouse lawn, and not a nativity. And we would want to include symbols from other traditions as well. Still on the same page?

Santa in the US culture, religious and secular, is not a religious symbol except for perhaps a tiny minority who views him as representative of St. Nicholas.
Elves in the US culture, religious and secular, are not a religious symbol.
The nativity, in the US culture, religious and secular, is a religious symbol.
I believe you disagree with those statements, and I'd really love for you to explain how elves are a Christian religious symbol.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
+1


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Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Agree. Parents like to give gifts to their children. On a kids bday, they receive gifts from mom and dad. So why is Santa needed at Christmas? Mom and dad can give their kids gifts during the winter without him.


Right. Christmas doesn't mean anything at all ... so let's just not have it in public schools! Done.


Christmas does mean something because it is a cultural tradition in the United States. That's why it is a federal holiday (while Easter is NOT a federal holiday). While some people celebrate the religious aspects of Christmas, many do not. We are not religious and have a Christmas tree, hang lights, have an elf that hides in our house, etc.

If you don't allow kids to celebrate any reference to Christmas at schools the next step is to get rid of the following holidays at school:

St. Valentine's Day- it originates from Christian martyrs (offensive to non-Christians) and emphasizes romantic relationships between a man and woman (might be offensive to some people)

St.Patrick Day - obvious Christian holiday, why are we celebrating a Saint's Day? I don't care that there are fun leprechaun ideas, the origin is Christian

Halloween - obviously offensive to some Christians

Thanksgiving- obviously offensive to vegans and vegetarians. Why is my kid coloring a turkey at school when this holiday is about slaughtering an intelligent animal?



Ok. Get rid of them all. No harm done.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
+1


+1.
Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Your perspective is all wrong. Perhaps there are some people for whom Christmas is TRULY secular, and they also celebrate secular Hannukah and secular Eid and secular Diwali. But Christmas is ALSO a major CHRISTIAN holiday, for many people and in the religion. Hence, when a NON-CHRISTIAN child must celebrate Christmas in a public school, there's no way to say "Oh, that's just secular!" Because although Christmas to some is secular, it's undeniable religious at the same time. You can't just sever Christmas from all its historical religious roots. That's the whole point.


Mainline churches are dying. Christmas is a cultural holiday.

I go to a church service, have an Advent wreath. Those are a very small part of the Christmas season, which is a big cultural holiday. Some people celebrate both, some only one or the other.


The point is - to a non Christian, Christmas is a religious holiday. You may personally decide to celebrate it in a secular way, but the symbolism (including Santa and the tree) is likely religious.


I am not a Christian.
I view Christmas as a secular holiday. Santa and the tree are not remotely religiously symbolic.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
+1


+1.
Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Your perspective is all wrong. Perhaps there are some people for whom Christmas is TRULY secular, and they also celebrate secular Hannukah and secular Eid and secular Diwali. But Christmas is ALSO a major CHRISTIAN holiday, for many people and in the religion. Hence, when a NON-CHRISTIAN child must celebrate Christmas in a public school, there's no way to say "Oh, that's just secular!" Because although Christmas to some is secular, it's undeniable religious at the same time. You can't just sever Christmas from all its historical religious roots. That's the whole point.


Mainline churches are dying. Christmas is a cultural holiday.

I go to a church service, have an Advent wreath. Those are a very small part of the Christmas season, which is a big cultural holiday. Some people celebrate both, some only one or the other.


The point is - to a non Christian, Christmas is a religious holiday. You may personally decide to celebrate it in a secular way, but the symbolism (including Santa and the tree) is likely religious.


Most non-Christians are smarter than you think they are. Not all, true.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
+1


+1.
Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


For Christmas. In case you're not aware, Santa isn't in the Christian Bible, nor are elves. And the tradition of the Christmas tree comes from pagan celebrations, and was brought indoors in a German tradition. Many people aren't even aware that Santa Claus is a corruption of St. Nicholas and do not venerate him as a Saint, but as a magical creature like a leprechaun. Just as people celebrate St. Patricks Day as a secular celebration, and not a religious veneration of another Saint.


Santa, elves, etc, are all undeniably associated with Christmas, which is a religious holiday (as well as being a secular holiday). There's no way to divorce them. You may personally practice secular Christmas, but the symbols are also religious, and you can't remove that linkage by fiat.


Tell me where I'm getting it wrong.

Christmas is a religious celebration.
Christmas is a secular celebration.
I think we both agree with those statements.
Christmas, both secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that a majority culture in the US celebrates. I think we're still on the same page here.
Christmas, secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that several minority cultures in the US don't celebrate. I think we're still on the same page.
Because the US has many cultures, one culture's traditions shouldn't dominate and that requires special care when dealing with the cultural traditions of the majority because it can appear to be everywhere. Still on the same page?
Because of religious sensitivity and our Constitutional requirement to not have state-sponsored religions, we need to be particularly careful if a religious tradition appears to be supported by our state institutions. So we will want to err on the side of a christmas tree on the statehouse lawn, and not a nativity. And we would want to include symbols from other traditions as well. Still on the same page?

Santa in the US culture, religious and secular, is not a religious symbol except for perhaps a tiny minority who views him as representative of St. Nicholas.
Elves in the US culture, religious and secular, are not a religious symbol.
The nativity, in the US culture, religious and secular, is a religious symbol.
I believe you disagree with those statements, and I'd really love for you to explain how elves are a Christian religious symbol.


Look, I obviously know that Santa and Elves are not in the bible. I also know that they are intertwined with Christmas, which in turn is a religious holiday. There's a connection. From the perspective of a Jewish child, constant elves, Santa, and trees at school are absolutely exclusionary on the basis of her religion.
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
+1


+1.
Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


For Christmas. In case you're not aware, Santa isn't in the Christian Bible, nor are elves. And the tradition of the Christmas tree comes from pagan celebrations, and was brought indoors in a German tradition. Many people aren't even aware that Santa Claus is a corruption of St. Nicholas and do not venerate him as a Saint, but as a magical creature like a leprechaun. Just as people celebrate St. Patricks Day as a secular celebration, and not a religious veneration of another Saint.


Santa, elves, etc, are all undeniably associated with Christmas, which is a religious holiday (as well as being a secular holiday). There's no way to divorce them. You may personally practice secular Christmas, but the symbols are also religious, and you can't remove that linkage by fiat.


Tell me where I'm getting it wrong.

Christmas is a religious celebration.
Christmas is a secular celebration.
I think we both agree with those statements.
Christmas, both secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that a majority culture in the US celebrates. I think we're still on the same page here.
Christmas, secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that several minority cultures in the US don't celebrate. I think we're still on the same page.
Because the US has many cultures, one culture's traditions shouldn't dominate and that requires special care when dealing with the cultural traditions of the majority because it can appear to be everywhere. Still on the same page?
Because of religious sensitivity and our Constitutional requirement to not have state-sponsored religions, we need to be particularly careful if a religious tradition appears to be supported by our state institutions. So we will want to err on the side of a christmas tree on the statehouse lawn, and not a nativity. And we would want to include symbols from other traditions as well. Still on the same page?

Santa in the US culture, religious and secular, is not a religious symbol except for perhaps a tiny minority who views him as representative of St. Nicholas.
Elves in the US culture, religious and secular, are not a religious symbol.
The nativity, in the US culture, religious and secular, is a religious symbol.
I believe you disagree with those statements, and I'd really love for you to explain how elves are a Christian religious symbol.


Look, I obviously know that Santa and Elves are not in the bible. I also know that they are intertwined with Christmas, which in turn is a religious holiday. There's a connection. From the perspective of a Jewish child, constant elves, Santa, and trees at school are absolutely exclusionary on the basis of her religion.


I don't understand your insistence on making it all religious, to the point where you're willing to make statements that are just bizarre (like elves being religious symbols). Your statement would also be true if you made a minor change
"From the perspective of a Jewish child, constant elves, Santa, and trees at school are absolutely exclusionary on the basis of her culture."
Since, just in case you weren't aware, there are people who are culturally and not religiously Jewish.

Christmas is overwhelming, especially to those who are not in the cultural majority. This should be treated more carefully than it is, especially considering OPs example.
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I'm very sympathetic to OP's concerns about a Christmas full court press, but want to push back specifically on the idea that talking about the Nativity in Spanish class is problematic.

In fact, I'm wondering if OP's child is in a Spanish immersion school, which would change my impression of the post pretty dramatically.

Even if we limit the discussion to Spanish class, though, I would honestly expect a language class to include a discussion of culture and holidays in the places where that language is spoken. For the case of the vast majority of Spanish-speaking places, no discussion of "December holidays" would be complete without a discussion of how people in those countries celebrate.
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Instead of the rudolf ornament, they could have made a snowman


Op, I think if you make this suggestion, it's helpful for people to hear it. It may or may not have the effect of reining them in a little. IMO secular Christmas symbols like Santa, elfs and Rudolf are ok in school. I'm unconcerned if your child feels left-out if it's because of that stuff, doesn't bother me in the least. Religious references in school are absolutely not ok. And it sounds like your school just has too much holiday stuff going on. They should tone it down some, I think, since it's school and it's suppose to be about academics.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm very sympathetic to OP's concerns about a Christmas full court press, but want to push back specifically on the idea that talking about the Nativity in Spanish class is problematic.

In fact, I'm wondering if OP's child is in a Spanish immersion school, which would change my impression of the post pretty dramatically.

Even if we limit the discussion to Spanish class, though, I would honestly expect a language class to include a discussion of culture and holidays in the places where that language is spoken. For the case of the vast majority of Spanish-speaking places, no discussion of "December holidays" would be complete without a discussion of how people in those countries celebrate.


I mentioned something similar upthread, but I also suspect that if OPs child hadn't been inundated with Christmas crafts, learning about the cultural traditions in Spanish class wouldn't have been an issue. When everything is Christmas it's hard to separate that out as probably appropriate.
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Perhaps we should not make a mountain out of a molehill.
Kids do crafts at school in Kindergarten.
Elves predate Santa and are found in several old folklore tales made for children
Give it up and find something else to fight about
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
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+1.
Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


For Christmas. In case you're not aware, Santa isn't in the Christian Bible, nor are elves. And the tradition of the Christmas tree comes from pagan celebrations, and was brought indoors in a German tradition. Many people aren't even aware that Santa Claus is a corruption of St. Nicholas and do not venerate him as a Saint, but as a magical creature like a leprechaun. Just as people celebrate St. Patricks Day as a secular celebration, and not a religious veneration of another Saint.


Santa, elves, etc, are all undeniably associated with Christmas, which is a religious holiday (as well as being a secular holiday). There's no way to divorce them. You may personally practice secular Christmas, but the symbols are also religious, and you can't remove that linkage by fiat.


Tell me where I'm getting it wrong.

Christmas is a religious celebration.
Christmas is a secular celebration.
I think we both agree with those statements.
Christmas, both secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that a majority culture in the US celebrates. I think we're still on the same page here.
Christmas, secular and religious, is a cultural tradition that several minority cultures in the US don't celebrate. I think we're still on the same page.
Because the US has many cultures, one culture's traditions shouldn't dominate and that requires special care when dealing with the cultural traditions of the majority because it can appear to be everywhere. Still on the same page?
Because of religious sensitivity and our Constitutional requirement to not have state-sponsored religions, we need to be particularly careful if a religious tradition appears to be supported by our state institutions. So we will want to err on the side of a christmas tree on the statehouse lawn, and not a nativity. And we would want to include symbols from other traditions as well. Still on the same page?

Santa in the US culture, religious and secular, is not a religious symbol except for perhaps a tiny minority who views him as representative of St. Nicholas.
Elves in the US culture, religious and secular, are not a religious symbol.
The nativity, in the US culture, religious and secular, is a religious symbol.
I believe you disagree with those statements, and I'd really love for you to explain how elves are a Christian religious symbol.


Look, I obviously know that Santa and Elves are not in the bible. I also know that they are intertwined with Christmas, which in turn is a religious holiday. There's a connection. From the perspective of a Jewish child, constant elves, Santa, and trees at school are absolutely exclusionary on the basis of her religion.


I don't understand your insistence on making it all religious, to the point where you're willing to make statements that are just bizarre (like elves being religious symbols). Your statement would also be true if you made a minor change
"From the perspective of a Jewish child, constant elves, Santa, and trees at school are absolutely exclusionary on the basis of her culture."
Since, just in case you weren't aware, there are people who are culturally and not religiously Jewish.

Christmas is overwhelming, especially to those who are not in the cultural majority. This should be treated more carefully than it is, especially considering OPs example.


I KNOW elves are not a religious symbol in and of themselves. But they ARE a symbol of a religious holiday. I'm not sure what your cultural/religious point is -- it just seems to reinforce that Christmas is exclusionary. When people claim to be only culturally Jewish, that does not make Hannukah any less of a religious holiday.
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Anonymous wrote:Perhaps we should not make a mountain out of a molehill.
Kids do crafts at school in Kindergarten.
Elves predate Santa and are found in several old folklore tales made for children
Give it up and find something else to fight about


Find another winter symbol that does not also symbolize Christmas, then. A cheerful sun for the solstice?
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Anonymous wrote:I would also raise it with the teacher. This happened in my kid's DCPS school a couple years ago--it is a majority minority school where the vast majority of families are Christian. A non-Christian family raised concerns about some class activities around Easter. The teacher was a longtime, older teacher. In this case, things got elevated to the principal, but I would at least start with the teacher.


No wonder our kids and young adults can't get along with anyone who does not believe, act, look or vote exactly like them.

We have spent a generation now of our schools teaching that sharing anything and learning about traditions are bad because if we are not 100% the same, we should all get offended and hurt feelings.
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Christmas was made a federal holiday in 1870. We aren't religious at all but enjoy celebrating Christmas because celebrating about Santa, elves, gingerbread, etc. is secular. Why should schools ignore a federal holiday?


What does secular Santa and his secular elf’s do?


Santa and his elves make toys in Santa's workshop.

This really isn't complicated.

The Christian tradition of Christmas is related to the secular tradition of Christmas, but they are not the same thing. Those of us who celebrate secular Christmas don't think of Santa as a Saint or as representative of a Saint, we do have Santa and elves which many religious people who celebrate religious Christmas do not.


But why is Santa and his elf’s making toys in the first place? Why are the toys/presents needed?


Because parents like to give gifts to kids. And people like to give gifts to each other.

Why are toys needed? Why not? Not because of Christianity, as you're implying.


Your perspective is all wrong. Perhaps there are some people for whom Christmas is TRULY secular, and they also celebrate secular Hannukah and secular Eid and secular Diwali. But Christmas is ALSO a major CHRISTIAN holiday, for many people and in the religion. Hence, when a NON-CHRISTIAN child must celebrate Christmas in a public school, there's no way to say "Oh, that's just secular!" Because although Christmas to some is secular, it's undeniable religious at the same time. You can't just sever Christmas from all its historical religious roots. That's the whole point.


I am OP. This is it. Christmas crafts may seems secular to other Christians or others who do Christmas but don’t feel religious, but that’s not the case for many Jewish people and perhaps others,, not sure. Again, I am ok with Some this was overkill IMO.
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