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Jesus died for Humanity. Anyone who can read the Bible and miss that idea, that Jesus’ death was both preordained and necessary to bring people back to God, has entirely missed the point. On the other hand, Christians have massacred Jews and driven them to brink of extinction, because of Christian sinfulness. Yes, we (Christians) need to recognize that while religion and cultural practices related to religion don’t belong (except in the context of unbiased, balanced social studies lessons which is not what OP described at all) in the public schools regardless of the makeup of the class, Jewish families have specific reasons to be wary of attempts by Christians to force their religion and culture on others, and to equate Christianity and nationalism. |
Religious nutters frequently have a martyr complex. Of course, one has to pull the ultimate “martyr card” - JFC himself. Disgusting. |
That is not my experience. While it's a minority of families I know who celebrate Christmas without Santa and reindeer, the christian families consider santa and reindeer as a part of it. The centerpiece is Jesus. They observe advent, have advent calendars, light candles, talk about wisemen and have a nativity. Those are the centerpiece. |
| I guess that some people do not understand that it is difficult to change two hundred years of tradition in a country. It is already changing slowly--some will take longer than others. And, yes, until recently most Americans were overwhelmingly Christian and schools were not concerned about differing religions because it was not a problem. It will change, be patient. |
The reason it is changing is because of people, like OP, who is taking the time to point out what needs to be changed. |
I am OP. I can’t believe this thread is 20 pages! There goes religious talk around Christmas for you... I also am astounded by that horrific antisemetic comment, a myth that perpetuates anti Semitism, and is another reason I need to talk to the teacher. I am just not sure what to say. Maybe someone suggested something in page 8 or 16, but I missed it, lol. I am pleasantly surprised by all the posters who completly understand my perspective about too much Christmas stuff and why it feels uncomfortable (poster above says it perfectly) and especially the whole nativity thing. She knows a lot about that story: about the wise men, baby Jesus, why they were wise, what they did, etc. This story was explicitly taught to her (Not other 5 or 6 years old talking about it... and no, she does not attend a Spanish immersion school). I think it’s fine she knows, and I learned about it too in spanish class in public school, but i was in high school. I get that it’s part of Spanish culture, but kindergarten seems young and coupled with everything else just seems overkill. Any suggestions of how I bring up with the teacher.... who as I said was not born in the United States and has another cultural perspective from her home country that is nearly 100% Christian. |
| The "religious nutter" you told to 'GFY' kindly responds...God bless you this holiday season. |
You are crazy, not Christian. It was atheist Nazis and Communists who drove Jews to the brink of extinction. And it is Jews who are returning the favor today to ... Palestinians, of all people. |
I'm a teacher (I posted earlier) and I wouldn't bring it up to the teacher. It is a building-wide issue if a teacher can do so much holiday stuff. He/she isn't alone and likely has a team doing the same lessons. It's the culture in the building. I would just politely say what you said here. Your child felt left out by the overwhelming focus on Christmas. You don't want to exclude her from fun activities but would appreciate balance or swapping out specific religious icons for neutral ones (Rudolph to snowflakes). It may also be worth reaching out to your PTO/PTA and if you are in DCPS your LSAT to share your concerns as those groups often help plan these types of activities or at least have some say in how much is done (but no actual decision making--hence going to the principal first). |
I don't disagree with you overall, but wouldn't you be annoyed if a parent went straight to the administration without at least talking to you first? |
Normally, yes, but I would also be more defensive if I was part of a team and following school culture. If it was something the teacher was clearly doing on her own, for sure go to her first. But this sounds like a team effort that's more school culture than individual teacher. Of course it never hurts to go to the teacher first. |
The Crusades? The Spanish Inquisition? Cossacks? Blood Libel? Polish and Lithuanian (etc., etc.) willing executioners in WWII. All Christians. |
Jews aren’t doing it: Israel is. There are plenty of Jews around the world (me included) who detest Israel’s treatment of the Palestinians. |
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Much to everyone's surprise, I'm sure, this thread has gone completely off the rails. I'll put it out of everyone's misery.
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