Just curious about something as we enter our 40's...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for you all ladies in your 40s with healthy libidos.

My DW, sadly (42) has a very low libido. And although she has willingly kept up with my healthy libido, things are stalling big time for her. Never initiates, never masturbates, etc.

I don't advertise my masturbation habits, and neither does my DH. Are you SURE she doesn't masturbate? I literally have no idea if my DH masturbates (but since he's human I assume he does. Especially since he's a human male). But he's never said anything, never seen anything, no hint of anything. Maybe he knows I do ... but how? I don't leave out love notes to myself (Good job, fingers! You made me cum hard today!).

[Anonymous]

My DW's libido hasn't changed much but my next door neighbor's libido has shot through the roof!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good for you all ladies in your 40s with healthy libidos.

My DW, sadly (42) has a very low libido. And although she has willingly kept up with my healthy libido, things are stalling big time for her. Never initiates, never masturbates, etc.

I don't advertise my masturbation habits, and neither does my DH. Are you SURE she doesn't masturbate? I literally have no idea if my DH masturbates (but since he's human I assume he does. Especially since he's a human male). But he's never said anything, never seen anything, no hint of anything. Maybe he knows I do ... but how? I don't leave out love notes to myself (Good job, fingers! You made me cum hard today!).

You've never disscused masturbation with your spouse? Never mutually masturbated? WTH?

And you're married to this guy? I can't think of a single girlfriend I ever had that didn't let me at least watch her once- gong back to 8th grade. I've watched my wife masturbate maybe 1000 times in the last 15 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good for you all ladies in your 40s with healthy libidos.

My DW, sadly (42) has a very low libido. And although she has willingly kept up with my healthy libido, things are stalling big time for her. Never initiates, never masturbates, etc.

I don't advertise my masturbation habits, and neither does my DH. Are you SURE she doesn't masturbate? I literally have no idea if my DH masturbates (but since he's human I assume he does. Especially since he's a human male). But he's never said anything, never seen anything, no hint of anything. Maybe he knows I do ... but how? I don't leave out love notes to myself (Good job, fingers! You made me cum hard today!).

I'm positive she doesn't. She'll let me use the magic wand with her on occasion but that's the only time they come out.

Again, I'm sure of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good for you all ladies in your 40s with healthy libidos.

My DW, sadly (42) has a very low libido. And although she has willingly kept up with my healthy libido, things are stalling big time for her. Never initiates, never masturbates, etc.

I don't advertise my masturbation habits, and neither does my DH. Are you SURE she doesn't masturbate? I literally have no idea if my DH masturbates (but since he's human I assume he does. Especially since he's a human male). But he's never said anything, never seen anything, no hint of anything. Maybe he knows I do ... but how? I don't leave out love notes to myself (Good job, fingers! You made me cum hard today!).

You've never disscused masturbation with your spouse? Never mutually masturbated? WTH?

And you're married to this guy? I can't think of a single girlfriend I ever had that didn't let me at least watch her once- gong back to 8th grade. I've watched my wife masturbate maybe 1000 times in the last 15 years.

I've never mutually masturbated with my GFs/Xs/DW. I'd rather have sex. lol

I've watched my DW masturbate maybe a couple times in 7 years but then again, she almost never masturbates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good for you all ladies in your 40s with healthy libidos.

My DW, sadly (42) has a very low libido. And although she has willingly kept up with my healthy libido, things are stalling big time for her. Never initiates, never masturbates, etc.

I don't advertise my masturbation habits, and neither does my DH. Are you SURE she doesn't masturbate? I literally have no idea if my DH masturbates (but since he's human I assume he does. Especially since he's a human male). But he's never said anything, never seen anything, no hint of anything. Maybe he knows I do ... but how? I don't leave out love notes to myself (Good job, fingers! You made me cum hard today!).

You've never disscused masturbation with your spouse? Never mutually masturbated? WTH?

And you're married to this guy? I can't think of a single girlfriend I ever had that didn't let me at least watch her once- gong back to 8th grade. I've watched my wife masturbate maybe 1000 times in the last 15 years.

I've never mutually masturbated with my GFs/Xs/DW. I'd rather have sex. lol

I've watched my DW masturbate maybe a couple times in 7 years but then again, she almost never masturbates.

I have no idea if my DH masturbates but we do enjoy doing each other. We've never done it together, separately.

[Anonymous]

See the over 50 forum and excellent sex thread. Sounds like things are going well in the 40-50 bracket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:See the over 50 forum and excellent sex thread. Sounds like things are going well in the 40-50 bracket.

And 60s too.