She HAS come to her conclusions, but you happen to not like them. That's why you stomp your feet and call her ignorant. You DON'T want her to come to her own conclusions. You want her to agree with you, and it makes you angry that she doesn't. |
You're making women responsible for controlling men's sexual urges, which are apparently always flaming and uncontrollable. That's both sexist and gibberish. - it makes men *less* able to control themselves and *increases* the sexualization of female-male relations. - why should women take the burden here and not those lust-ridden men? - if you really think the onus should be on women, why not just wear buns? Or cut the hair short like men's hair, which is OK, right? |
Why does it irk you if she has a set of beliefs created by men? Who died and made you in charge of what other people should believe? She doesn't need your approval to believe what she does. |
Women have breasts too - is that sexist? |
As you say, it's her choice. She's decided to ignore what her own holy book says. Wonder if she's even read the whole thing? But if she's going to voice her opinions on a place like DCUM, then she has to at least try to defend them. |
Huh? PP said "God asked men to lower their eyes..." I wasn't aware that's in the Quran and asked for the verse. |
There's *no* disagreement in this thread that the Quran wants women to cover their breasts. The disagreement is over how to interpret it's silence about hair. |
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OK I found it myself on Google - verse 24:30. |
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I don't blame Muslim PP for constantly contesting what others say by putting down their authority to say it.
I feel sorry for her because she was taught to defend her religion solely by saying this is what so and so supposed authority has said rather than by using critical thinking to lay out a reasoned rational defense of her beliefs. She has been taught a winning attack on others' reasoned views consists simply of dismissing them solely on the grounds that they are not a regurgitation of what some supposed scholar who has undergone years of study has said, never mind the quality of that scholarship. She is not unlike those Christians who cannot defend their beliefs except by quoting verses from the Bible. |
Of course not. But if there's no verse in the Quran, and no teaching by scholars, that men are responsible for their lust and their actions, then it is further proof that Islam is fundamentally anti-woman and not feminist. From what I know, which is probably less than most posters on this thread, women are unequal in Islam, lesser compared to men. A head covering is a visual part of that. |
The Christian Reformation was instrumental in introducing critical thinking and analysis to Christianity. (Well, others like Augustine, Aquinas and more attempted to apply classical logic to religion before the Refornation, but the Refornation was a huge step.) My understanding is that Judaism has undergone similar periods of critical thinking. Some in the Muslim world have called for a similar revolution in Islam. In fact, Islam's earlier centuries were renowned for inquiry and critical thinking. Reform today is made more difficult by the fact that Islam has no central authority like the Pope (again, absence of a priestly class was a key tenet of early Islam). For many, this happens on an individual basis, as they decide to read and interpret the Quran for themselves and/or question the beards and their authority/biases. As you say, PP is clearly not up for that. |
LOL right, whatever you say is a "reasoned view", whatever others say to disagree is a "regurgitation". Got it. What's really interesting is that you think anyone here is trying to defend their beliefs. Muslim PPs are content to believe what they do. They aren't interested in defending it from you. What you think is simply not important to them. |
Actually, you are confusing two things: 1) what the Quran says, and 2) whether what it says makes sense. You think it's sexist that women are asked to cover their hair and men aren't. But you are OK with women being asked to cover their breasts, and men allowed to go about in their shirtless glory. That, too, is sexist in that it treats sexes differently. |
That very thought actually crossed my mind. But I figured there was no percentage in going there because PP, who is all about changing the subject when she has no good answer to the question at hand, would turn this into a debate about showing your breasts on the beach. I do agree with you. |