So I contacted my husband's Mistress

[Anonymous]

Just curious, OP, when your husband told he therapist he liked fat ladies, if he referred to it as a "sick fetish" or if those are your words. Seems to me this is more size preference than sick fetish. Of course, if you're not morbidly obese and don't check his boxes, I could see where it might be a little irritating to you at this point.

I guess I consider a sick fetish something involving blood and farm animals, but to each his own.

Certainly, again, not grounds for a vindictive custody battle.

[Anonymous]

He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

Heck..........you married him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

I think you are a troll and have just plunked us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

I think you are a troll and have just plunked us.

Punked

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

I think you are a troll and have just plunked us.

Punked

Absolutely a troll. It was obvious as her stories became more and more far-fetched. But she had us going for a while!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Actually, PP (8:55) the post you're referring to was my first in this thread. The OP is having no trouble carrying the nasty all by herself.

Looking for advice on how to screw with custody and visitation for a BABY over an affair is vindictive and b*tchy beyond comprehension to me. Keeping a child from a parent over a grudge is not acceptable by any stretch.

I'm not an OW, but maybe you have experience as you seem to know so much about my life. I'm an aunt to a niece born out of exactly this kind of situation. My brother wasn't having an affair, but the relationship was failing and all the sudden GF was pregnant. He should have kept it in his pants, agreed, but as I stated before - who really thinks that a woman will get pregnant ON PURPOSE? Now niece is sadly used as a pawn for control and it's really a sad situation because brother is an excellent father but must jump through flaming hoops daily to keep his ex "allowing" him to see his daughter.

Well this certainly explains your posts. Your experience is coloring your reaction to this post which is unfair to OP. Calm down and take a few deep breaths. This is not about your brother and there has been nothing OP has posted so far that supports your assumptions about her motivations.

NP. PP you actually sound like you have a vindictive agenda on this topic. Perhaps your husband cheated on you and you acted like a scornful wife and thus is encouraging OP to act as you. This is not about you. This is about an innocent child. As a former child who was used as a pawn, I can tell you that it sucks. I also resented my mother for a long time because she kept my father from being a father to me out of spite. Shit happens. It's about the kid. If OP's STBX turns out to be a shitty patent, the kid will eventually figure it out on his own without the help. Of OP

Way to turn the argument around.

[Anonymous]

Not a troll. But I think I shouldn't have given so many details about my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

What's wrong with being attracted to fat women? That's not a fetish any more than being attracted to thin women is. You think he's sick for that? You're losing me, OP.

[Anonymous]

If someone can tell me how to hide the whores phone number so I can't be sued I'll screen shot my conversation with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He says it isnt a fetish, it's a preference.
I think something happened in his childhood and he just wants the opposite of his mother who was very in shape and athletic. He is very evil and strange.

What's wrong with being attracted to fat women? That's not a fetish any more than being attracted to thin women is. You think he's sick for that? You're losing me, OP.

Again not fat women but 400-500 lb fat women

[Anonymous]

Save the number in your phone as a name. Any name. Could even be "Fat Whore." That will conceal the number.

[Anonymous]

The phone number shows up underneath it. I have a phone and a tablet. If I can block out the number I have no problem showing screen shots. I saved everything. I even told her about his fetish and that he was using her as so.

[Anonymous]

Forgot to say I have Verizon if that helps

[Anonymous]

Well if she's morbidly obese, unlikely she'll get pregnant anytime soon...