Dp, This poster seems to argue that Britney is better off destroying her health and life, because some others destroyed their health and life. It’s a pretty ridiculous argument. |
No, that’s not what I’m arguing at all. I’m arguing that her bad conduct doesn’t meet the standard for taking away most of her basic freedoms. The question isn’t whether she’d be “better off” (I don’t know). It’s whether the government can hand over her freedom to a private person. People have the right to wreck their own lives and make bad decisions, like driving drunk and refusing medical care. I don’t think engaging in that kind of conduct alone justifies a conservatorship where you’re no longer able to make decisions about whether and to what extent you work, what happens to your money, whether you can have a baby, whether you can enter into contracts, where you can live, etc. The courts in every state happen to agree with me. |
Keep up with these comments. They really help persuade others about your point. |
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| I meant to +1 the PP. |
I’m not trying to persuade anyone of anything. It’s a discussion forum and I post my POV. You get worked up about it and think you’re throwing zingers and insults. Ok, but I don’t really care. |
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I’m not the big law poster but I agree with her that you can totally self destruct your life but it doesn’t justify a conservatorship over you, in a legal sense. People have the right to make terrible decisions and a large number of people exercise that right.
It’s all very sad. I feel really bad for her kids. It’s bad enough when your mom is a hot mess but this is so public. |
I’m not worked up about anything. Instead of substantively engaging, you’re just insulting me, which isn’t really effective at making a point. But keep at it if it makes you happy. |
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Except the Court hearing Britney’s case disagreed and that’s why she was in a conservatorship. The conservatorship only ended because her dad did not seek its renewal due to public pressure. |
| A court found Britney needed to be in a conservatorship and she actually had the only stable period in her adult life while under it. People seem fixated on the LV residency and fine, that should have gone away if it wasn’t what she wanted. She needed the treatment for her apparently serious mental illness, and like many seriously mentally ill, lacks the capacity to see the need for it. When she was what you call “heavily medicated,” she was coherent and able to maintain stable relationships with a boyfriend and her children. Not so now. |
Yes, but I think there is such a disconnect between her wealth enabling her to technically "take care of herself" and the scope of her illness that it's really hard to address and reconcile. Usually someone with her degree of mental illness would not have financial and logistical resources and be homeless in the streets or living in dangerous hoarder conditions. But she has a maid, an accountant, various people there so that part does not happen, and it feels like she perhaps does not "need" the conservatorship...Except then it also means her mental health needs are going neglected, and this can still endanger her and others. |
Well yes, but it also seems that people arguing for “ freedom” don’t have first hand experience with family members or others with serious mental illness. The illness dramatically affects their ability/competence to make decisions about what is or isn’t in their best interest. |
Your assumption is inaccurate. My father has bipolar and drug and alcohol addiction. |
I’m not so much arguing for her freedom more than arguing that Kevin Federline and Jamie Spears were not fit to run the conservatorship and showed time and time again that they did not have her best interest at heart. I also think the way they used her children against her well before the conservativeship was cruel, inhumane, and greatly contributed to her mental health downfall. While it was clear that she should not have unfettered access to her children until she became more stable, the children should not have been used to bribe her to perform and that is what they did. Jamie Spears was not fit to take care of himself. Google recent images of him, his extreme alcoholism has led to total destruction of his body, luckily he has some money left over that he can afford a full-time caregiver as he’s not able to manage by himself. Kevin Federalline has mismanaged his finances so much that he was absolutely desperate when the child support payments dried up and had to sell that book which was a failure. |