Can older men really attract younger women?

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Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Yakis - a 53 yo wanting to marry a 19 yo. Stinks pedophilia. I and all my college friends were complete children at 19. Jesus!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Good for you, because you would have really big problems when you are 50 trying to sleep with a 85 yo man who is near end of his life

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is 53 and getting a divorce and he is in fantastic physical shape and has a very young, playful attitude (although he has a very serious job, so he's not a perpetual child). He is currently dating a 30-year old. While I can understand the attraction, I am shocked that she wants to have multiple kids with someone who is going to be in his 70's when their first kid would graduate from high school. She has A LOT of issues, so there's that, but I also think she's just not seeing beyond the here and now. I think in 5 years if they're still together she'll be shocked at how old he seems.

When Melania met Trump, she was 28 and he was 52. She was 35 and he was 59 when they got married. He is now old at 80 and they are still married. Their son is fine. What are you talking about?

If only could have Melania's life.

And she doesn’t even need to sleep with him! She married well, indeed

Yes, but she still has to report back to Putin regularly. So, its not all fun and games.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is 53 and getting a divorce and he is in fantastic physical shape and has a very young, playful attitude (although he has a very serious job, so he's not a perpetual child). He is currently dating a 30-year old. While I can understand the attraction, I am shocked that she wants to have multiple kids with someone who is going to be in his 70's when their first kid would graduate from high school. She has A LOT of issues, so there's that, but I also think she's just not seeing beyond the here and now. I think in 5 years if they're still together she'll be shocked at how old he seems.

When Melania met Trump, she was 28 and he was 52. She was 35 and he was 59 when they got married. He is now old at 80 and they are still married. Their son is fine. What are you talking about?

If only could have Melania's life.

And she doesn’t even need to sleep with him! She married well, indeed

Yes, but she still has to report back to Putin regularly. So, it’s not all fun and games.

Whoever she sleeps with, that’s def not her husband

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is 53 and getting a divorce and he is in fantastic physical shape and has a very young, playful attitude (although he has a very serious job, so he's not a perpetual child). He is currently dating a 30-year old. While I can understand the attraction, I am shocked that she wants to have multiple kids with someone who is going to be in his 70's when their first kid would graduate from high school. She has A LOT of issues, so there's that, but I also think she's just not seeing beyond the here and now. I think in 5 years if they're still together she'll be shocked at how old he seems.

When Melania met Trump, she was 28 and he was 52. She was 35 and he was 59 when they got married. He is now old at 80 and they are still married. Their son is fine. What are you talking about?

If only could have Melania's life.

And she doesn’t even need to sleep with him! She married well, indeed

Yes, but she still has to report back to Putin regularly. So, it’s not all fun and games.

Whoever she sleeps with, that’s def not her husband

And she looks like a man now so I wouldn’t be surprised if she slept with women, following the recent trends in these circles

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

What did the kids think? Why would a 53yo want to marry a college girl?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hear a lot that men don’t have a biological clock and that they choose to date younger etc. However, one thing I’ve noticed with early 40s guys in particular is that they just seem… old. Even the athletic ones who take great care of themselves lack the same vibrancy of early to mid 30s men. Do early to mid 30s women really want these guys? Or does the likelihood of them getting married and starting a family begin to drop at some point?

Depends. I was a retired military broke divorced single dad and was dating some hot women in their 20s (I was 42). A few years later I'm not broke and kids are older and almost out of the house and I'm dating hot women in their 30s. So yes they can. Oh I met most at the gym or online. Hooked up with two women at my previous job.

Yes if you stay in shape, have your act together, have a good job and your face doesn't like a bowl of mash potatoes you're going to do well with women from their 20s-50s. Also helps if you do things that make you look younger like not be a fat body. And being a dad has given me DILF status as I've been told, so if they have daddy kinks you're in there like lobbyist in congress

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

What did the kids think? Why would a 53yo want to marry a college girl?

If you're a 55 yo with any sense and you're a man why would you want to marry anyone?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

What did the kids think? Why would a 53yo want to marry a college girl?

If you're a 55 yo with any sense and you're a man why would you want to marry anyone?

How is that even a question ? Men remarry way faster than women. Access to warm body (at least for 10 years, instead of exhausting dating); home cook, personal secretary and psychologist.
Of course a lot of these can be done without marriage if the man is wealthy enough to make it worth the time spent for the young woman
It’s very transactional

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Yakis - a 53 yo wanting to marry a 19 yo. Stinks pedophilia. I and all my college friends were complete children at 19. Jesus!

150,000%
Soo creepy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Yakis - a 53 yo wanting to marry a 19 yo. Stinks pedophilia. I and all my college friends were complete children at 19. Jesus!

I understand why you are still a child at 45. You didn’t grow up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

What did the kids think? Why would a 53yo want to marry a college girl?

Out of the four kids, two were really nice. The 25 year old was super welcoming and even let me be a part of her wedding, which was nice. The 29 year was cool too. The 27-year-old, though, was a bit more stand-offish and barely interacted with him. The youngest who was 24, was laid back, nothing special.

It might sound like our relationship was transactional but it was actually normal and equal. He typically didn’t date women that young—his usual pattern was to date women in their 30s if it was for a serious path to marriage, and he didn’t even consider marriage or short-term relationships with women in their 20s. So our relationship was really different for him. Yes, he had a lot of money and would gift me entire closets full of gifts nearly every week, but that wasn’t the foundation of our relationship. It was about companionship.

When we broke up, he really struggled. He thought I was so special that he went into a rut and didn’t get out of it for years, didn’t date. He tried to get me back, but eventually, he remarried a woman in her late 40s with two kids in their early 20s. I guess everything worked out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

What did the kids think? Why would a 53yo want to marry a college girl?

Out of the four kids, two were really nice. The 25 year old was super welcoming and even let me be a part of her wedding, which was nice. The 29 year was cool too. The 27-year-old, though, was a bit more stand-offish and barely interacted with him. The youngest who was 24, was laid back, nothing special.

It might sound like our relationship was transactional but it was actually normal and equal. He typically didn’t date women that young—his usual pattern was to date women in their 30s if it was for a serious path to marriage, and he didn’t even consider marriage or short-term relationships with women in their 20s. So our relationship was really different for him. Yes, he had a lot of money and would gift me entire closets full of gifts nearly every week, but that wasn’t the foundation of our relationship. It was about companionship.

When we broke up, he really struggled. He thought I was so special that he went into a rut and didn’t get out of it for years, didn’t date. He tried to get me back, but eventually, he remarried a woman in her late 40s with two kids in their early 20s. I guess everything worked out.

Sounds his kids each had a fat trust to their name

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Yakis - a 53 yo wanting to marry a 19 yo. Stinks pedophilia. I and all my college friends were complete children at 19. Jesus!

I would have totally lost it if my 19-year old came home and said she was dating a man older than her dad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course. I dated a 53 year old man when I was 19. He was attractive and wealthy, but I didn’t date him for his money. We met at a club in NYC, hit it off immediately, and started seeing each other.

He treated me extremely well. He was very respectul, and chill. We traveled, went to nice events and genuinely had fun. Yes, he bought me expensive gifts (jewelry, bags, etc.) that I kept after we broke up.

Beyond that, he actually made my life better. He encouraged me, helped me mature, introduced me to people, and even helped me network my way into an internship that mattered for my career.
I enjoyed his company, felt taken care of, and we did have genuine love for each other.

Interesting. Why did you break up, if you felt you were getting so much out of the relationship?

He adored me so much and wanted to marry me but I was too young to settle. If I was a little older, and he a little younger, we’d probably have gotten married, plus he already had four kids who were in their mid-late 20s at the time.

Yakis - a 53 yo wanting to marry a 19 yo. Stinks pedophilia. I and all my college friends were complete children at 19. Jesus!

I would have totally lost it if my 19-year old came home and said she was dating a man older than her dad.

And I mean, she says he gave her connections for career. Which career, a sugar baby? 19yo is one year out of HS, they have no clue what they want to do, no jobs, no education.