Can older men really attract younger women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife dated a few guys who were in their 40s when she was 18-19. They weren't rich, it was just what she was in to at the time.

She is a whore?

[Anonymous]

Yes. It's not always about money. We both have money, but I want something money can't buy.
I don't care about the 30- and 40-year old after me right now. They want what men want.
I want the 64-year old. He didn't do anything to attract me. He was being him and going about his business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. It's not always about money. We both have money, but I want something money can't buy.
I don't care about the 30- and 40-year old after me right now. They want what men want.
I want the 64-year old. He didn't do anything to attract me. He was being him and going about his business.

In other words, men your age want sex, and you don't, so you're going for the 64-year-old? That's almost as old as my parents...

[Anonymous]

Yes. I am a calm and successful older man. I'm active and decent looking. Younger women who have been with volatile or unsuccessful men sometimes like me a lot. Women with bad relationships with one or both parents also sometimes like me a lot. Also foreign women, since expectations about age gaps are different in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, etc.

[Anonymous]

Money. You need to be generous with it or choose an ugly woman no one her age wants.

No woman who has options is signing up for old meat 20 years past its prime unless it comes with a side of money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I am a calm and successful older man. I'm active and decent looking. Younger women who have been with volatile or unsuccessful men sometimes like me a lot. Women with bad relationships with one or both parents also sometimes like me a lot. Also foreign women, since expectations about age gaps are different in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, etc.

So, you're that predatory species of loser who looks for injured women. I dated one of these when I was in my early 20s and coming out of an abusive relationship. He was 38. As soon as I was sorted out mentally, I cheated and dumped him. I don't feel bad about it because he had no business swooping in to take advantage of a girl more than 15 years his junior. F--k men like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m in my 20s and have always been mostly attracted to older guys since I was 17, usually in their early to mid-40s to late 50s, and sometimes even early 60s. I’m drawn to their confidence and life experience, but I’m also physically attracted to them.

Wait until you're 40- this will all change! Trust me.

Don't make the stake of marrying someone that much older.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Just bringing this thought up after I went on a first date with a 42 year old last night. We had a nice date but I don't think we had much in common, and physically he was tall and attractive, but looked his age. Just wondering since I feel like one of the reasons he was likely looking to date someone younger was to possibly still have kids, but overall it felt a little strange to date him (had we decided to be bf gf). It didn't feel like it would be a partnership.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in my 20s and have always been mostly attracted to older guys since I was 17, usually in their early to mid-40s to late 50s, and sometimes even early 60s. I’m drawn to their confidence and life experience, but I’m also physically attracted to them.

Wait until you're 40- this will all change! Trust me.

Don't make the stake of marrying
someone that much older.

I know, I’m not planning to marry that much older.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Just bringing this thought up after I went on a first date with a 42 year old last night. We had a nice date but I don't think we had much in common, and physically he was tall and attractive, but looked his age. Just wondering since I feel like one of the reasons he was likely looking to date someone younger was to possibly still have kids, but overall it felt a little strange to date him (had we decided to be bf gf). It didn't feel like it would be a partnership.

How old are you?

[Anonymous]

Short answer is yes and depends on the age difference- would say 15-20yrs is the max

[Anonymous]

DH has a close friend from college. Tuned 50 last year and in the last 22 years I have known him, always dates twenty somethings. Never saw him with anyone over 30 and is now with a girl who graduated college in 2023.

Has a decent job, not really good looking but talks very well and is entertaining.

[Anonymous]

My Dad is 62, a widower, and he looks 50, he’s very fit and successful. I have a few single friends in their early 40s who would date him in a second if he wasn’t my father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Dad is 62, a widower, and he looks 50, he’s very fit and successful. I have a few single friends in their early 40s who would date him in a second if he wasn’t my father.

I am 48 and I wouldn't date him. I don't think women date older unless they don't have their own money.

[Anonymous]

Yea, “ money, success, stability” are the key words here