| I hear a lot that men don’t have a biological clock and that they choose to date younger etc. However, one thing I’ve noticed with early 40s guys in particular is that they just seem… old. Even the athletic ones who take great care of themselves lack the same vibrancy of early to mid 30s men. Do early to mid 30s women really want these guys? Or does the likelihood of them getting married and starting a family begin to drop at some point? |
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I mean, it really depends on the size of their
Wallet. |
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It depend$.
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| I’m in my 20s and have always been mostly attracted to older guys since I was 17, usually in their early to mid-40s to late 50s, and sometimes even early 60s. I’m drawn to their confidence and life experience, but I’m also physically attracted to them. |
| They know how to use the size of their wallets better than younger guys. Also there are pills. |
| It's all about money OP. |
| I’m 38 and I’m enjoying dating 45+ men. They’re confident and experienced and have money. Most are gentlemen. |
This. I'm not sure why it's complicated. A 30 year old guy working 50+ hours is going to have less energy than a 50 year old working 35 hours per week and affording a personal trainer, healthier food, etc. There are multiple factors. |
| They can attract younger women, but the younger woman is not going to be the cream of the crop amongst other women her age. The ones that marry older men usually have emotional issues or money issues. If a woman is young, beautiful and stable she can marry a man her own age with a solid career and/or a trust fund and she doesn’t stand to gain anything from marrying an older man. |
| Billionaires have no problem. |
| My wife dated a few guys who were in their 40s when she was 18-19. They weren't rich, it was just what she was in to at the time. |
| Better be good looking w long money $$ |
| with money, yes |
| All about the money. Anyone who says otherwise is lying or dumb. |
| Yes. I didn't expect it when I got divorced, but moved into an apartment with Howard students as neighbors and took it from there. |