How do some women land amazing, caring, reliable, attractive guys?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, do you ever hear people admonish and scold women for "not picking better"?

That's literally it. Don't "pick" bad men. If they are crude in their first message to you, dont go out with them. If they only comment on your pictures and not anything else in your profile, dont go out with them. If you are on a date with them and they do something rude, crude or inappropriate, leave.

Basically you just want to rule out time wasters and losers ASAP.

And no one taught me how to do this. Most of us aren't taught, and I think those women whose parents do teach them how to respect themselves and rule out jerks and losers pick better.

Absolutely. Women are told to sit down, shut up and be grateful for any male attention - including unwanted. No more.

Huh? Who told you this? Your parents? Not sure where you got this message I sure didn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, do you ever hear people admonish and scold women for "not picking better"?

That's literally it. Don't "pick" bad men. If they are crude in their first message to you, dont go out with them. If they only comment on your pictures and not anything else in your profile, dont go out with them. If you are on a date with them and they do something rude, crude or inappropriate, leave.

Basically you just want to rule out time wasters and losers ASAP.

And no one taught me how to do this. Most of us aren't taught, and I think those women whose parents do teach them how to respect themselves and rule out jerks and losers pick better.

Absolutely. Women are told to sit down, shut up and be grateful for any male attention - including unwanted. No more.

That's unfortunately what I was taught.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, do you ever hear people admonish and scold women for "not picking better"?

That's literally it. Don't "pick" bad men. If they are crude in their first message to you, dont go out with them. If they only comment on your pictures and not anything else in your profile, dont go out with them. If you are on a date with them and they do something rude, crude or inappropriate, leave.

Basically you just want to rule out time wasters and losers ASAP.

And no one taught me how to do this. Most of us aren't taught, and I think those women whose parents do teach them how to respect themselves and rule out jerks and losers pick better.

Absolutely. Women are told to sit down, shut up and be grateful for any male attention - including unwanted. No more.

If by “male attention” you mean regular marital s*x with your otherwise great husband, then go right ahead and see what happens when you cut him off completely.

How’s that working out for you?

She talking about being harassed on the street or in the workplace, not about being married. Or being stalked by a guy you don't like, but your family thinks you should be happy with the unwanted guys who are stalkers..

We're talking about male attention in the form of dating pp, not sure what you are talking about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women without baggage and drama land this type of guy.

yes, the most unattractive thing I find in a women is drama and if they continue to do it then it becomes unbearable and people catches these red flags early in dating.