But that wasn't the assumption of the post. If your goal is the best education instead of upper middle class living, you just don't need to concern yourself with the t20. There's about 100 institutions that'll fit your educational needs, so what? Do asian Americans have some intrinsic understanding about higher ed that we all else lack? |
A little bit of more context from my perspective: When I came to the U.S. for college from a homogeneous island country in Asia, I was deeply inspired by the openness and creativity of the college environment here. For me, coming here wasn’t about economic opportunity; it was mainly about escaping the same grinding pressure that many now see within Asian communities in the U.S. Years ago, top U.S. institutions were genuinely inspiring—full of remarkable minds and a true diversity of intelligence. That was the intrinsic value I saw in American education. I could engage in rational, no-nonsense debates with my classmates and teachers. Back home, that would have been nearly impossible because of the deeply ingrained culture of deference to authority. Given what’s been happening in the K–12 system and the college admissions landscape over the past few years, I’m rethinking where to send my child for higher education. |
When i was little my parents told me Asians go to school six days a week and that was 35 years ago |
No, the proof is in the fact that Asian immigrants are privileged. Because of the Immigration and Naturalization Act of 1965, highly educated and skilled Asians jump to the front of the line. How else do you explain that 51% of Chinese immigrants come to the United States with an undergraduate degree? Only four percent of people in China are similarly educated. Twenty-six percent of Vietnamese immigrants have a bachelor's degree; only five percent of those back home do. Only 36% of South Koreans have a college education; 56% of Korean immigrants do. Honestly, is it any surprise that educated people would have educated children? And despite landing on third base in their native country, obviously they don't think hard work and love of scholarship would carry them to home plate. They came to the United States for that: Like immigrants overall, a majority of Asian immigrants cite better opportunities and a better future for their children as reasons for moving to the U.S., with high shares of immigrants from East and Southeast Asia also citing having more rights or freedoms as a reason. Among Asian immigrants, at least three in four say better economic and job opportunities (86%), educational opportunities (79%), and a better future for their children (75%) are a reason they moved to the U.S. Smaller shares say they came to the U.S. to have more rights or freedoms (66%), to join or accompany family members (51%), or to escape violent or unsafe conditions (34%). So, please stop with the model minority myth that centers East Asian Confucian emphasis on education as what differentiates Asian immigrants from people whose ancestors came here on slave ships -- especially because those people fought for increased immigration during the Civil Rights Movement. https://www.kff.org/racial-equity-and-health-policy/understanding-the-diversity-in-the-asian-immigrant-experience/ https://items.ssrc.org/from-our-programs/it-takes-more-than-grit-reframing-asian-american-academic-achievement/ |
Hart Cellar Act...IMO, It it wasn't for that Act Black would be further ahead |
Correct was like that but if you think about it. It’s ironic that some immigrant families still enroll their children in after-school and weekend tutoring programs here in the U.S.. Speaking as an Asian who dislikes grind culture, it’s almost amusing to see practices I once considered mind-killing practices now taking hold in the U.S. Essentially there is no escape for these poor children. |
maybe they want their kids to retain ties to language and culture. why is that a bad thing? White liberals sending their kids to mandarin or spanish immersion school but somehow it’s bad for immigrant families to send their kids to weekend heritage language/culture schools? Russians, French, Germans, Muslims; all immigrants do this if they settle in a place that has large enough of an ethnic community to support it. |
If you believe it is enriching to your family, no one will stop you. No reason to seek validation or outright generalize every immigrant or race. People can see in their eyes who's doing what |
If elite colleges stop looking at these enriching "EC", sports, math competition, foreign languages, your community probably will drop it in no time. |
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i highly doubt anyone is sending their kids to weekend heritage language schools
because it “looks good” for college. If anything, the time required is a detriment to actually pursuing other EC activities that can be a bona fide admissions hook, like travel sports. |
| 25% pell grant. top 3 strongest freshman class by test score and class rank. they are also going test required next year and have no legacy admissions. optimizing for true merit |
https://hub.jhu.edu/2025/12/01/johns-hopkins-demographic-makeup-class-of-2029/ |
Or math classes right? otherwise how can they be genius
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Seriously? My Indian kid (I count as Asian) spent 10 minutes a day on homework until Calc BC. That was only because the teacher was awful. Kid was admitted to multiple HYPSM btw — mostly because of LORs. |
lol there are true intelligent people that some grinding people would never understand |