But just imagine what your life would have been if you had taken your talents to a HYPSM...you might be making 8 figures...or might have moved past the yearly income to net assets? Imagine the possibilities. |
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Cause it’s typical ribbing. Like buying from designer brands with status and legacy. Really not worth taking it so seriously. I went to a “lesser Ivy” - if you ask some - and there are billionaires and policy wonks and yoga teachers and baristas and all sorts from my class. As there are from all sorts of schools. And people have all sorts of outcomes and better fits. There’s status and branding value and networks and often a sense of auto credential of smart and capable on resume - but it’s not any sort of end all and be all. |
I grew up in a rural area in a family where only one parent even graduated from high school, just going to college was a big accomplishment. Ironically I likely could have gone to Cornell (it was pretty local) but that would have required money that my family didn't have so it wasn't on the table and not being able to attend Cornell wasn't seen as a big deal at all because I was still going to college. Would going to a HYPM made a big difference? Maybe, but I could make the same statement about going to Rochester or even Syracuse. In fairness it take me longer to get started on the path to where I am relative to someone who came out of a top school but it wasn't hard to compete and rise above once I made it onto the field. I am typing this while sitting in a meeting a a very large well known company on the West Coast. The top dog on the call went to SUNY Bing, I'm next and I went to a different SUNY. A bit further down the chain is an exec from CMU/MIT....maybe more people should consider SUNY? I mentioned income in my previous post but I could have used net assets which are well into the top 1% range as well. My kids would never have to work if that was a goal but as you might expect from my background learning to work and compete is the goal; the wealth was the result of success, not a goal in itself. |
Or they might be making six figures, like many HYPSM grads. There’s no reason to assume that a person who ended up very successful would have ended up even more successful coming out of HYPSM. |
+1 pretty accurate |
You would not be revealing so much on an anonymous forum unless you were insecure. Love thyself! |
I see that you are practicing a bit of self-soothing by projection. If it helps you go for it. |
Np, I think its a great story and he hardly sounds insecure. Meanwhile I ran into a woman yesterday who has multiple degrees from Stanford and Harvard and is living a normal life and in every two sentences I was made aware of where she went to school. I think going to top schools and not really distinguishing yoursef and having to keep telling people about where you went to school 30 years ago is insecurity. People succeed because of who they are not because where they went to school. |
+100! |
Whats semi selective about Emory or WashU? Also Vandy looses peer admits to every ivy except Cornell. |
If you're getting this from parchment, there is not enough info to make that determination. The problem with parchment is that too many of the kids that got into Cornell and Vanderbilt determination actually went to Columbia or something like that so their opinion is not expressed. The typical Cornell student is not going to be particularly interested in Vanderbilt and vice versa. Cornell, rural northeastern college Vanderbilt, southern college in Nashville |
It'd the best available info, also that doesn't answer the question how Emory and Washu schools with 10 and 12% acceptance rate and 1510/1530 sat scores respectively are semi selective? Where did you, your spouse, and child go to college? |
she like many people here sound i sufferable. i never mention where i go to school openly |
People often make the mistake of comparing person A with person B. The real question is for the same you, would you rather have a HYPSM on your resume or a regular uni? I think the answer is obvious. |