Unless you are focused 100% on CS this just isn't true. And, if you are focused 100% on CS it still isn't true. If you expand the pool to include all of the true CS powerhouses Stanford and MIT are two of a half dozen but they aren't unicorns. What is true is that Stanford and MIT have managed to navigate the DEI nonsense better than the other three. |
Basically, get a Harvard MBA. |
+1 also stop viewing undergrad as life or death. |
Of course HYPSM gives great advantages throughout life. Instant credibility…that can be fumbled.
The notion undergraduate degrees from HYPSM are meaningless comes from insecurity and envy. Yet one does not need HYPSM for a wonderful life.
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I know HYP belong in the same sentence as M & S. You argue HYP barely break the top 20. I disagree. Not so secretly you want fewer apps to HYP so you and your family have a better shot at admission.
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I agree with WUSTL but not Vanderbilt. The acceptance rate is too low for it to be an ivy reject and the school has many desirable factors. To me, it’s the fun alternative to lower ranked ivies like Cornell/Dartmouth/Brown just like Duke is the fun alternative for middle ivies like Columbia/Penn. WUSTL and Emory are more on the same level, semi-selective schools with not enough desirable factors other than cheaper cost to choose it over an ivy. |
I’m pretty sure in my case it comes from e going to a state school, making 7 figures and having multiple Ivy+ people (including one HYPSM) reporting to me. Can’t really find insecurity or envy anywhere in the equation. |
I don't know about OP's crowd but everyone I knew who went to Harvard was modest about it and never mentioned it if they didn't have to. |
My kid is at Harvard and I agree with this. We tend to avoid saying where she attends mostly because of the reactions. I’m surprised at how nosey folks are about where kids of someone they have just met attend college. People’s attitudes change instantly — they either start fawning all over you or show their insecurity. But I do think everyone is genuinely modest about their abilities and know they were lucky to get in. |
And do you feel HYPSM is meaningless? |
8 pages of interesting discussion, but the answer is still that their massive endowments are what rally differentiates HYPSM from other elite schools. |
Nothing else like the Stata building. |
No offense to your kid but Harvard students are not that modest. They are pretty exclusionary. When participating in conferences, they engage in gatekeeping to keep out less prestigious schools. |
I don't get the obsession, especially by certain groups. For far too many kids (and families) it is really about bragging rights within their communities. Undergraduate education is about baseline learning and having peer groups who push you to excel, it isn't about 8 schools in an athletic conference which has reached 'mythic' status in the eyes of some. These are great schools but they are all very different and none of them are absolute unicorns in any field. Looking at student bodies they are among about 40 schools (universities and SLACs) with mostly indistinguishable student academic profiles, their students aren't all unicorns they are merely among a very very smart subset of students. They don't do anything unique for these students either, schools mostly teach form the same books and it makes complete sense, they are teaching baseline knowledge. Their real defining characteristics are that they are mostly located in the Northeast relatively close together and they mostly very old. The simple fact that Cornell gets the same level of attention as the others is "prima facie" evidence that there isn't something unique here; it is nothing like the others except for geography. The fact that some people try to further define most of these schools with things like 'HYPSM' is further evidence that it is about nothing except a need for some to try and feel superior to others. The need for these things is driven by insecurity. I also don't understand why someone would want an 'LV' bag either. It is a waste of money whose only purpose is virtue signaling. |