80% of women swipe on just 20% of men on dating apps

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The problem is that it's the top 20% that figure out that having babies sucks life out of you, but the bottom 80% keep reproducing.


We attempted to address this problem in Berlin beginning in the mid-1930s, but our solution never gained traction. The problem was that the people we (the top 20%) perceived as being in the bottom 80% disagreed with us regarding their status.

Maybe we can start again with people like you, Mein Liebchen.


I didn't ask for government intervention, come on now. I think the problem was best shown in the movie Idiocracy, where humanity becomes significantly less intelligent over generations because intelligent people choose to have fewer children, while those with lower intelligence have more.
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Why do “we” need to reverse this trend? It sounds a lot like natural selection.
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Anonymous wrote:80% of rejected men should figure out why they aren't like the successful men and make adjustments if they don't want to be alone.


No worries as 80% women going after 20% men doesn't work so 60% of them will come hack to reality.


....or stay single. That's the thing. Women have choices. If they don't find a man who meets their standards, even if you (or I) think those standards are too high, they can stay single, and increasingly are deciding to do so.

Being in a relationship is nice, but many women have come to the realization that men are far less necessary if they are willing to provide for their own financial and social needs.


Yet the most desirable, the ones with the absolute most options, almost always married.


Okay. The point stands, though. Women are increasingly happy being single (and even those high status women often stay single much longer than men). You seem to be implying those women aren't actually happy, that they just don't have enough options, but that's just more telling women they are wrong about their own lives. Which is exactly what happens when women are forced to talk to men.

Women say they don't care about cars, height, money, or penis size. But you cannot convince many men to take women at their word, because men don't see us as worthy of speaking about our own life's, preferences, and experiences.


I'm just observing the way the world works.


What you observe is just the surface. These women may be seeing men in different non-standard forms and arrangements, and just not telling you


All of these intelliget, attractive, successful women married to men who match them are possibly doing that, you do have a point.
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I didn't ask for government intervention, come on now. I think the problem was best shown in the movie Idiocracy, where humanity becomes significantly less intelligent over generations because intelligent people choose to have fewer children, while those with lower intelligence have more.


Honey, when the National Socialist German Workers Party started, they were not part of the government.

It is always shocking to me how often people believe that they are blessed members of an elite group based on their intelligence, genetics, attractiveness, etc. Reread your post about how 20% of the population should reproduce while 80% of the population should not, and then come back and tell us you do not believe in a master race.

Perhaps it will make more sense to you if you go to your closet and retrieve your Brownshirt, so you can wear it while you do so.
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The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.
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Anonymous wrote:The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.


Obviously, all kinds of people get married all the time. Just go to the mall or the beach or a school event and look around.

But it seems that many of the 80% don't consider their counterparts worth the effort.
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Anonymous wrote:The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.


That’s literally not what that says. Did you miss “reading is fundamental” as a kid?
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Anonymous wrote:80% of rejected men should figure out why they aren't like the successful men and make adjustments if they don't want to be alone.


This. Maybe a matriarchal society is not a bad thing. We have never really tried it.


Yes - and then women will realize having babies just sucks the life right out of you, so, as a species we should not have any more babies and we humans go extinct within one generation.


If both genders aren't willing to be good spouses and good parents then may be that's the end?


The problem is that it's the top 20% that figure out that having babies sucks life out of you, but the bottom 80% keep reproducing.


Lol.

Top 20% based on what qualifications?
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Anonymous wrote:The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.

Anyone too stupid to meet people in real life doesn’t deserve to procreate anyway.
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Anonymous wrote:The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.


Obviously, all kinds of people get married all the time. Just go to the mall or the beach or a school event and look around.

But it seems that many of the 80% don't consider their counterparts worth the effort.


Until men can grow children inside of them, a loser man and a loser women are not equals. A woman can claim she brings her body to grow and birth children to the table. What does a loser man bring? It takes 5 minutes to release sperm. And the 20% of men can provide sperm for all women. The same cannot be said of 20% of women having children for all men.

So men have to try harder to be counterparts to "undesirable" women.

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Anonymous wrote:This 80/20 thing has been disproven. Just more red pill bullshit.

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a64339071/80-and-20-rule/

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/can-we-stop-with-the-80-women-picking-20-men-dating-myth/

Why do lefty men never complain about this stuff? Isn’t it odd that you only hear it from magat manosphere right wing nut jobs?



It's crazy how true this is.

Every liberal or sanely politically moderate guy (ie, Romney Republican) I know has a wife and kids. Straight white guys I know who dislike Trump? Mostly married men with daughters, living in suburbs adjacent to major urban cities.

The guys who constantly complain about the dating market? Almost all of them are conservatives in finance or somehow were "red pilled" in recent years. Some former Democrats who hated Hillary and Kamala. It's uncanny.
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Anonymous wrote:This 80/20 thing has been disproven. Just more red pill bullshit.

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a64339071/80-and-20-rule/

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/can-we-stop-with-the-80-women-picking-20-men-dating-myth/

Why do lefty men never complain about this stuff? Isn’t it odd that you only hear it from magat manosphere right wing nut jobs?



It's crazy how true this is.

Every liberal or sanely politically moderate guy (ie, Romney Republican) I know has a wife and kids. Straight white guys I know who dislike Trump? Mostly married men with daughters, living in suburbs adjacent to major urban cities.

The guys who constantly complain about the dating market? Almost all of them are conservatives in finance or somehow were "red pilled" in recent years. Some former Democrats who hated Hillary and Kamala. It's uncanny.


Yvery few womena, knowingly get into a relationship with a misogynist, so this makes sense.
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Anonymous wrote:This 80/20 thing has been disproven. Just more red pill bullshit.

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a64339071/80-and-20-rule/

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/can-we-stop-with-the-80-women-picking-20-men-dating-myth/

Why do lefty men never complain about this stuff? Isn’t it odd that you only hear it from magat manosphere right wing nut jobs?



It's crazy how true this is.

Every liberal or sanely politically moderate guy (ie, Romney Republican) I know has a wife and kids. Straight white guys I know who dislike Trump? Mostly married men with daughters, living in suburbs adjacent to major urban cities.

The guys who constantly complain about the dating market? Almost all of them are conservatives in finance or somehow were "red pilled" in recent years. Some former Democrats who hated Hillary and Kamala. It's uncanny.


There are many, many men like you describe. And I know you want that to be everyone. But online the sheer numbers are made up of Asian and Indian men.
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I never understood why single men insist on using a medium that overly benefits women. OLD is mainly built for women. I never tried OLD. I got rejected left and right and at times looked desperate, but I eventually found a woman that I would have probably never found had I gone online.

Ironically she was single and swiping for men on OLD. At the time she said I was the first man to approach her in a non creepy way in person.

Men just need to try their luck in person. I'll go as far as saying that if a man can't find a woman on OLD and he is not willing to try in person, he is actually better of just single. He will be doing himself a favor.
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Anonymous wrote:The 80% of men still get people to swipe on them they just get less swipes. So this “loneliness” epidemic is actually false.

It’s not that the “lonely man” can’t get dates. It’s just that they’re too lazy and too cheap to plan a good date and then.


Obviously, all kinds of people get married all the time. Just go to the mall or the beach or a school event and look around.

But it seems that many of the 80% don't consider their counterparts worth the effort.


This seems to be the real issue.
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