This. But additionally, I've lived here for 30 years now. This is where my friends are. I cannot imagine trying to start anew in another city. Not at my age. Where would I go? I think of the cheaper cost of living areas, they're usually in areas that are not so transient so people have lived there forever and they have established friend groups, and are not likely open to adding more people because why would they? |
There is an entire country out there. There are plenty of DC residents who have lost their job or about to lose it, and should simply move. Just because you’ve been doing something for decades doesn’t mean you must keep doing it. The US government is no longer a good trustworthy employer and you should leave. FWIW, the housing market has increased in price at a greater rate in other areas than DC. You will be surprised to find that LCOL areas aren’t exactly that LCOL. |
| A very reactive friend of mine asked me if I was going to sell my Chevy Chase home I bought in 2021 (after being outbid on 7 other prior homes) that has a 3% interest rate. Girl, no. She’s also trying to get her husband to move out of the country with her and their 9 yo DD. He said no. I love my friend (and this current administration is a clown show), but the problem is her. |
It’s not unreasonable to expect most people need to work for a living. A 3% mortgage rate is a great deal. I have one too. But it’s more important to earn an income than have a low mortgage rate. |
Do you have a Canadian LLM? Did you get a job offer before trying to immigrate? DH and I are early 40s Fed lawyers and assumed we were too old. |
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Just had dinner with a good friend from Northern Europe who is a green card holder, has an American spouse and children, and has started two businesses in the US, valued well into the millions. As an aside, he first came here as a foreign student. He is a moderate/centrist.
He is applying ASAP for citizenship because he no longer feels safe as a green card holder. He is purchasing a home in his home country as an investment and as part of an exit strategy. He has already lost business due to certain Trump policies and feels he will be lucky to break even this year. He is not sure that his business will survive the Trump reign and he is concerned about the various threats to civil liberty and freedom of expression that are cropping up everywhere. |
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The only people I know who are leaving are Europeans who either have daul citizenship or are here legally.
They are taking their American spouse and family back to Europe with them. I don't blame them. |
We have this option but are not doing it. The quality of life is just better in the US. We don't have the historic charm or slow pace, but our housing, appliances, and conveniences are better. |
Did you read what that person wrote other than what you put into bold font? The person was talking about trying to make a new friend group. Yes the United States is big. However it is difficult in the later part of our years to try to make new friends. |
No Canadian LLM. And I haven't tried at all -- I just did the quick online points quiz that Canada offers after getting curious when I saw that PP mentioning the points system. It didn't ask about job offers, and I filled out the degree info for non-Canadian degrees. It did ask age, and I'm older than you are, early 50s. The pp about the points system hit my curiosity because close friends are in the process of moving to Canada now. The DW is a citizen of Canada and after living here for about 20 years wanted to go home. The process to get the visa or resident status or whatever it is for the DH has been extensive, took about a year, and required an interview. They did pay an immigration lawyer to handle their paperwork. She is 67 and he is 66. They began this process long before ... well, long before. |
The DMV is otherwise a very cool place to live with so much access to culture, art, political opportunities, diversity, etc. Why would we leave for this chump who may not even last four years. We’ve also invested a significant amount in housing - other than a war - our property values will either stay stagnant at their already overpriced or increase. We ARE DC - the occupant in the whitehouse and his minions are temporary. |
It's cherry blossoms season. What did you expect? |
Many don't realize this or do know and don't care anymore. Others think there is something magical in...Canada or Europe. if you have work, family and friends in one of those places it could be easier, or are a dual citizen. |
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| Yes, they’re in AZ. I don’t know if it’s about Trump. |