
no. it would be too much work. he wants to chill, make tons of money and show up to invictus. |
Totally disagree. Picture your bil going around town slamming you to your friends and acquaintances, to your colleagues and your boss, to people at the grocery store, to your local newspaper, relaying anecdotes that are not truly awful, but just personal and trying to make you look bad v. themselves and sil look good. You'd really still trust them and want them around? |
Nice fantasy but the damage is done. This wasn't a minor disagreement they went scorched earth with the book and Oprah shows. That's not family you can trust in the family business and they aren't just going to turn over the Commonwealth to Meghan. She knows next to nothing about diplomacy and can't get along with her family. |
What you described is what has been happening by the palace press machine for years. I didn’t think that the Oprah interview was that damaging. It was obvious that most of what the British tabloids were writing had to come from some source and Camilla’s cozy relationship with Pierce Morgan is no secret. So the only damage in my view is that the secrecy about how they manage the press and the royal rota et al has become more transparent. I liked the book Spare. Nothing there was so incredibly new. British people are uptight and take a long time to warm up to new acquaintances. W&K are uptight and the cultural differences obviously played a role. |
Agree |
You don’t seem to understand that royal authority is symbolic and their legitimacy requires a lot of good will and faith in their value to society. It would not be a matter of handing over the keys to the kingdom to Meghan but finding common ground and unity in a polarized world. Being unifiers while rooted in culture and history would have enormous value to society. |
I understand it perfectly well. But, here we are. The palace doesn't agree with you. And Brits aren't exactly crying their eyes out hoping for Meghan's return. She's an American, not one of them. |
This might have happened in time, if Meghan and Harry stayed. But they didn't, they opted out. |
They were chased out |
Because they didn't work well with the others. That's sort of important in a family business. So they left and I think they are all happier for it. The fab 4 or whatever they were called for a hot minute is never going to happen. |
They were given tours of various Pacific and African country. That last tour was right before the exited. So how were they chased out? They had public functions and duties. |
It exposed them as the most petty and dysfunctional family I know. Seriously dysfunctional. |
Picture your bil asking his buddies to publicly post a false story about your fiancée making his pregnant wife cry. When his wife was actually the one who was unkind to your fiancée, and in fact, made her cry. But everyone believes it as he allows the lie to continue on and they start to hate your fiancé. And they continue to plant sometimes fake, sometimes true but unflattering stories publicly about her. Next Door and your neighborhood FB page users despise your now-wife. ![]() |
Yep! Why should he do work for a family that hates his wife? When he is just the spare? |
Oh of course not. If that were the true version, I'd be out. But I also wouldn't be constantly talking about all of this, and I definitely would not want to visit, or think it's a good idea to ask for special favors when I do go back. |