Boyfriend and I have been arguing and I asked for a break; he's immediately out dating other women

[Anonymous]

Be careful of what you ask for because you just might get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im sorry OP.
I think i would break up with him, his behaviour sucks you are right.

re-read the original post by OP...she did ask for a break up (with him) and he accepted her request. Now she's hurt that he's enjoying himself ever since she broke up with him.

That’s called woman logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op are you the same poster whose boyfriend called her fat? If so , move on. He’s not worth any of this.

I was wondering the same thing.

[Anonymous]

He was a "partier back in the day" means he is probably in >30. OP also has an apartment and not in college so likely >25.

[Anonymous]

Good for him!

[Anonymous]

OP here... to update he was texting me/calling me throughout the "date". We met up yesterday and he assured me nothing happened and it was just a friendly thing which I truly do believe and I questioned him many times about it. I also cant imagine they were having wild passionate sex in the midst of him texting me every 20 minutes. I am annoyed he went out with her to one of our spots though and will not be going out to that place again with him. I'm honestly not sure who is in the wrong- I get that what I said was foolish but Im also very angry that he's done this in a public place and also reposted the story to his instagram even though he says he sees her as just a friend. He says I broke up with him. I'm just trying to put a positive face on it and not get mad at him again but it's hard

[Anonymous]

Is this how you want to be treated, OP? Really take a long time to think about it.

You deserve to be treated with respect 100% of the time. You deserve a man, not a boy. He will continue to treat you like trash but swear he’s not technically breaking the rules or whatever. I think you know that you should leave. It’s painful. But just do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im sorry OP.
I think i would break up with him, his behaviour sucks you are right.

re-read the original post by OP...she did ask for a break up (with him) and he accepted her request. Now she's hurt that he's enjoying himself ever since she broke up with him.

That’s called woman logic.

You are called misogynist.

[Anonymous]

He's trash

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've been arguing a LOT lately and eventually I asked for some space and said I wanted to have a bit of a break. He sleeps over at my place every night and I wanted some time off and to be able to think on my own and get away from him. He's out with another girl tonight and posted it on his social media (she tagged him in a story and he reposted it). It's embarrassing that our mutual friends will see it and obviously it bothers me that he may sleep with these other girls. He is attractive and gets lots of female attention and he basically told me that if we went on a break he would go see other women but told me he wouldnt sleep with them. I feel like this is really outrageous and disgusting behavior. He also blocked me after our last argument when I asked for a break, so i feel like the whole distance is his fault as well.

YOU'RE ON A BREAK, RACHEL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s showing you his true colors. Move on!

This. You broke up with him!! Now be done with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here... to update he was texting me/calling me throughout the "date". We met up yesterday and he assured me nothing happened and it was just a friendly thing which I truly do believe and I questioned him many times about it. I also cant imagine they were having wild passionate sex in the midst of him texting me every 20 minutes. I am annoyed he went out with her to one of our spots though and will not be going out to that place again with him. I'm honestly not sure who is in the wrong- I get that what I said was foolish but Im also very angry that he's done this in a public place and also reposted the story to his instagram even though he says he sees her as just a friend. He says I broke up with him. I'm just trying to put a positive face on it and not get mad at him again but it's hard

You have a lot of growing up to do before you start dating again and don’t let it be with this guy. You two will never work so just end it now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here... to update he was texting me/calling me throughout the "date". We met up yesterday and he assured me nothing happened and it was just a friendly thing which I truly do believe and I questioned him many times about it. I also cant imagine they were having wild passionate sex in the midst of him texting me every 20 minutes. I am annoyed he went out with her to one of our spots though and will not be going out to that place again with him. I'm honestly not sure who is in the wrong- I get that what I said was foolish but Im also very angry that he's done this in a public place and also reposted the story to his instagram even though he says he sees her as just a friend. He says I broke up with him. I'm just trying to put a positive face on it and not get mad at him again but it's hard

DTMFA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this how you want to be treated, OP? Really take a long time to think about it.

You deserve to be treated with respect 100% of the time. You deserve a man, not a boy. He will continue to treat you like trash but swear he’s not technically breaking the rules or whatever. I think you know that you should leave. It’s painful. But just do it.

+1
What are you doing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here... to update he was texting me/calling me throughout the "date". We met up yesterday and he assured me nothing happened and it was just a friendly thing which I truly do believe and I questioned him many times about it. I also cant imagine they were having wild passionate sex in the midst of him texting me every 20 minutes. I am annoyed he went out with her to one of our spots though and will not be going out to that place again with him. I'm honestly not sure who is in the wrong- I get that what I said was foolish but Im also very angry that he's done this in a public place and also reposted the story to his instagram even though he says he sees her as just a friend. He says I broke up with him. I'm just trying to put a positive face on it and not get mad at him again but it's hard

You have a lot of growing up to do before you start dating again and don’t let it be with this guy. You two will never work so just end it now.

+2. Your whole thread sounds like two 18 year olds. I broke up with him and then he immediately went on social media with another girl? Both of you need to grow up.