What do you make of it when adults refer to their mom or dad as just “Mom” or “Dad”

[Anonymous]

I think it's internally cringe-worthy. I know a woman who is in her 50s who refers to her mom as "Mommy" on FB posts. That's alarming. She's an executive at a huge company too, with a couple of advanced degrees.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m one of these people! I never would have noticed, but a friend pointed it out once. She said it was funny, but I wonder if I was getting on her nerves. It’s completely unconscious—like someone said, I think I sort of just treat Mom as a name.

Yes by funny she meant strange.

And she's a lousy friend.

Aw, now I feel bad! She speaks English as a second language, technically, so she may well have meant it was strange, but I do think she found it interesting in a linguistic quirk sort of way rather than truly grating. Of course, I am apparently quite self-absorbed and emotionally stunted — and really, where is the lie? — so who knows.

I remembered this thread today and came back to check how it developed and am so fascinated.

[Anonymous]

Dear op, never try to learn Japanese

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"My mom" is travelling to the Bahamas.(neutral), "my mom" took the kids out to lunch( happy), "mom" is arguing with "dad" again (pissed at them and annoyed by their 50 plus year drama)

The kids??????

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate when people do this. Only know two people who do this: one from Boston and one from Georgia.

lol I was just going to bring up the Kennedies do this a lot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think anything of it, but that’s because I generally don’t split hairs over the small stuff that isn’t important.

+1 This thread is a perfect example of people making mountains out of molehills. Some posters are reading waaaay too much into people referring to “Mom” and “Dad.” As my teenager likes to say, it’s not that deep.

[Anonymous]

I find it annoying.

[Anonymous]

Its fine either way, anyone getting irritated by such trivial things needs help to find out real reason it bothers them.