I know where you are coming from and know some who feel that way. Almost everyone who take AOPS or RSM in the hopes of doing well in competitions fade out by late middle school. I do agree they tend to do rather well upto that point around AMC 8 to AMC 10. They bomb out in AIME and AJMO/AMO. There is a reason for that. Dont let all the IMO team are in AOPS WOOT BS fool you. |
I am the PP you responded to. Do you mind to elaborate? I am genuinely curious and don’t know anything about benefits/or lack of benefits of acceleration and enrichment pass middle school. Why do kids bomb out at a later point? Does it not matter to them anymore (because they got to a school of their dreams?) or is is that they cannot keep up? I never expected AAP math to be what it is at our center school, and aside from having to do the “proper” learning part elsewhere, I like our teachers and the school in general. I find it interesting that our school is an outlier compared to an experience of some of the posters here (at least in terms of quizzes and videos to check where the students are before deciding how much instruction is necessary). |
DP. The reason PP is saying they bomb out is mostly because they were pushed/forced by their parents into way too many activities with almost no time to play. Sure, AoPS and other enrichment classes were good for them and helped them do well in elementary and some middle school levels, but once the kids got to high school they realized they liked to do other stuff and didn't have to be controlled by their parents. This is particularly true for many TJ hopefuls many of whom were unduly stressed so that parents could laud them in their family and friends circles... This is even true for some kids who make it into TJ; they were pushed to a large degree against their will, that when they get there and realize they are not the best and possibly even below average, become tired and demotivated from continuing to "grind" it out all for college admissions. At that point they're smart enough to realize that their parents value them more for what they can achieve vs who they are. They may be capable of keeping up, but their desire was lost by being forced to do stuff when they should have had a bit more play time. It's the academics analogy to the kids who are pushed to travel teams for hours almost every day of the week because of their parents sports obsession. I'm not saying it's true for all kids, but there is a large portion of kids who went through years of enrichment and while they benefited from it, it did not motivate or increase their desire and love for learning, and the biggest factor was that they were simply overscheduled and didn't have time to relax, be a little bored, and just play. They were forced to study and compete to such a degree, that they literally have no memory of authentic play. It's fairly obvious that balancing prep and play without turning it into a joyless exercise is key, so that way kids get a chance to actually enjoy learning and find their own drive. But many parents who are obsessed with TJ don't see it that way; they believe their kids have to constantly be pushed. They fail to realize that at a certain level (i.e high school AMCs, AIME and beyond) it's impossible to push their kids. If the kids aren't motivated or curious by that time, it is impossible for them to continue that path by external pressure. |
Sure, but the kids taking AoPS or RSM because they love math are still going strong far into high school. Kids usually fade out around late middle school or early high school for any activity that they're only doing because their parents are forcing them. |
Even if your kid doesn't find a passion for math or an instrument or a sport, it doesn't mean that the enrichment was worthless. A lot of kids discover that they don't like playing the violin or participating in soccer or whatever around late middle school. As long as the parent isn't pushing too hard at the beginning or refusing to let their 8th grader quit an activity, trying things to see what sticks is fine.
AoPS or RSM will give a strong foundation to ES kids. They might enjoy contests when they're younger. After a point, they'll either love math and be well set up for advanced courses or competitions, or they'll fade out and pursue other interests while still having a strong foundational grasp of the math. Both outcomes are fine. |
I agree with your concerns, to a point. I don't necessarily believe that overscheduling and a lack of downtime are "the biggest factor" that decides whether intrinsic drive is at the end of enrichment. For one, there are plenty of "slackers" whose parent don't enrich and yet they remain as unmotivated as they've always been. For me, it's a question of providing for my child what I was given when I grew up: opportunities. Without outside enrichment, my child wouldn't have the same opportunities I had, thanks to the complete failure and math aversion in the public school system. Children will sort themselves out, we did. And yes, only a handful are successful at challenging math competitions. Because as Barbie correctly opined, math is hard. And if it isn't to you, you're not doing it right. |
It seems like the kids who got enrichment (e.g. cryptarithms) would be in the latter group while those who just accelerated 3rd grade material somewhere like Kumon or Mathnasium would be in the former. How do you differentiate between enrichment and supplementation? |
I feel like the "AOPS" "math competition" posters would want to underestimate rather than overestimate the difficulty of AAP math - "AAP isn't really challenging the way AoPS/RSM/MOEMS is." |
This seems to be in line with the PP's experience - when few supplement/enrich, math is taught in class. When most do, math class becomes more focused on formative assessment. |
I agree with this. LIV/ Advanced Math is challenging for a lot of kids. It just is. There is a subset that are not challenged but that is a smaller number than most the people posting here think. If you were good at math and your kid is good at math then you probably think that the math is easy. I can see that there are schools were more kids are enrolled in math enrichment and how that can cause issues at those schools. I would guess that this is the case at more higher SES schools were parents are determined that their kid end up at TJ. As for the posts about kids burning out because of enrichment, we ask DS at least three times if he wants to continue with RSM. We ask at the end of the school year, when enrollment for the next year opens, when we get the first invoice, and when we get the last invoice. If he said he was done, we would respect his choice. He has asked to continue for four years and asked to test into competition math. Most kids drop rec sports between 6 and 8th grade, I am sure math will be the same. |
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What a bizarre comment. Students only "bomb out" because no matter how amazingly talented they are, the number of winners is a fixed number. Today's "bomb outs" would be winners 20 years ago. How can you call someone who is in the top 500 out of 4 Million students in their grade, "bombing out"?! That's top 0.01%! The AMC contests have been getting harder every year for over 50 years now. Kids are so talented now that the AMC 10 is now nearly identical to the AMC 12, because so many kids are near perfect on the test 2 whole years earlier than they used to be, and the test remains committed to being only pre-calculus content It's a crying shame that the MAA only cares about fielding a winning IMO team, and doesn't acknowledge the amazing achievements of the ever growing number of students learning an amazing amount of mathematics. |